ok...i really like my boyfriend but for some reason he's allwase breaking up wit me....and i allwase take him back(cuzz he comes back begging..and saying he made a mistake)its allmost like he thinks its a game!!!that every time he does that he knows that ill take him back.but i dont no if next time he does it if i should go back out with him(im 13)iv kissed him alot....and we really like each other but i need help!!!!!1
2007-01-25 09:38:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it's hard to say no. i'm 16 and just broke up with my boyf that i had for three years. we started dating when i was 12 going on 13. ( in October) he changed. this boyfriend of yours has a lot of maturing to do. i say that you compare to who he is with his friends then how he is with you. i think you should move on before yoiu fall in love and it will be even harder to say no to anything. you don't want to make a mistake that you will regret. if you keep saying yes he is going to think that everytime he breaks up with you, you are eating out the palm of his hand and you will say yes. you have to suck it up and next time he breaks up with you, don't Give in whatever you do!!! it will be sooooooooo had but don't! do anything from keeping you from saying yes. think of all the bad things he's done to you. think of how many times he's broken up with you and you cried. don't le that guy be the center of your life, you can do better. he doesn't deserve you.
2007-01-25 09:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by can'ywait2getoutofhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 13... which in guy years means that he is 8 lol! I think you should dump him and wait until you are in highschool for someone who is a lot more mature.
Good luck with a better dude! Know that he is only with you because it makes him cool, not because he cares for you!
2007-01-25 09:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a couple years. Both of you have emotional maturing to do before you can commit to a love relationship. Right now it'll be just alot of heartaches for you.
2007-01-25 09:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by Darktania 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
next time he does it, dont take him back...your only 13 you have plenty of more guys to meet and youll find someone better than him...to me it sounds like he only wants you when he wants you and he doesnt care when you want him or not and he doesnt care that hes hurting you...im not saying that he doesnt care (about you) but you need to tell him what hes doing and make him realize that if he keeps doin it that your not goin to be around forever...
2007-01-25 09:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe less time worrying about boys and more time studying... say English? But I'm "allwase" being a smartass!
2007-01-25 09:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD WARN HIM AND IF HE DOES IT AGAIN THEN YOU MIGHT NOT TAKE HIM BACK TELL HIM HE GIVES YOU TOO MANY BROKEN HEATS IF HE COMES BACK BEGGING AND SAYS HE MADE A MISTAKE SAY YES YOU DID AND WALK AWAY OR HANG UP
2007-01-25 09:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by musicsweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax - your only 13. it's not long-term anyway. but it may be your spelling. i'm not sure.
2007-01-25 09:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by spankypants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should worry about him there are other boys.
2007-01-25 09:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by jennidixon186 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't respect you, if he did then he wouldnt use you like that
2007-01-25 09:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋