Every time I ask a guy that i like out, they say no, but then they are my friends. Then they start acting like jerks all of a sudden, like they were never even my friend in the first place. When I like a different guy though, my friends are always telling me to just ask him out already, and I am just scared of rejection, and because I do that with some other guys, but they say to just wait, until he asks me out. I don't know what they want me to do. I mean I have no problem asking a guy I like out, its just it would be nice for a change if a guy I liked actually liked me back, and they asked me out, not vice versa. Just to add to it, it seems like they flirt with me a lot, and even before that I like them, and I think they like me, and that's why I ask him out. Shouls I listen to my friends, my heart, my head? I just don't know what to do anymore. Help please.
2007-01-25 09:32:18 · 22 answers · asked by ginnybri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bad timing
2007-01-25 09:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A lot of guys sort of avoid asking a girl out because the average man has a 89% rejection rate. So, you could say they are just as confused as you are.
Just be cool, look your best, and be prepared for when the right guy does ask you out. Obviously, you are attractive to a certain group of males which means you are worth being in a relationship with. Try to be patient because guys find patient females to be gorgeous. Combine your patience with you good looks and being supportive and mark my words, you'll have a pretty good boyfriend before summer time.
2007-01-25 09:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tones 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, well I say, listen to your heart AND head, I mean think about it, if your heart tells you go for it, but your head tells you to think before you leap, then do what they both say, first by getting to know them, and if your head thinks this is still a good idea, then if your heart says go for it also, then just jump off and do as they say. Don't do as your Friends say, it's just peer pressure and well, letting others do things for you, basically taking over your life, even though it doesn't seem like it.
I let my Friends choose for me who to date since I didn't know what to do, but trust me, it'll just make everything worse.
2007-01-25 09:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by Cracker Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way. If a guy likes you, but says he doesn't, he is a waste of time. That 30 seconds you took to ask him saved you a long time of not knowing.
Remember, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
2007-01-25 09:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys love it when the girl asks them out! The guys your asking out might just be scared of your forwardness which means they're immature. I think your falling for the wrong type of guy.
2007-01-25 09:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm picturing you ranting in one long sentence without breathing and I'M already annoyed by you.
OMG, you truly don't understand what your problem is, HELLO you took the time to email me because I left a smart *** comment (joking by the way) and the email was a long rant just like your post. Do ya think you might be a little neurotic and long winded?
2007-01-25 09:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
usually the girl isnt the one askin the guy out, i personally wouldnt ask someone out because thats just not me but everyone is different...but sometimes things like that happen, i mean every guy you like cant like you back...sometimes they will like you or they wont like you...it just depends on the type of people they like and what kinda personality they like but you cant really make someone like you...& sometimes it may seem like they like you but dont rush into anything thinkin that they do unless you really know for sure...listen to what both your heart and head tell you to do...& sometimes your friends can be a good help too!
2007-01-25 09:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the only person you can truely trust to tell the truth is yourself
when it comes to love first, follow your heart.
and only moderate it a LITTLE bit... with your head
your friends, you can listen to, nod at... and otherwise dismiss, even if they are right
and there's no reason in the world that you shouldn't ask boys out, you are equal to them, in every way. except in penis size, but since that really oughtn't matter...
2007-01-25 09:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most boys are dumb, they say one thing and mean something entirely different, wishy-washy. Find something in common with these boys, let them make the first move. Most guys like to do that, it makes them feel like the Alpha male. Alpha-the most important.
2007-01-25 09:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by creerhnter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should listen to your heart. that is the best thing to do. ya i know that friends are important tooo but it is just the way it is. that is what i did and now i am happier than ever.
2007-01-25 09:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by Missy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋