2007-01-25 09:32:13 · 23 answers · asked by Malmal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe. Give him a chance to change his tune, though. Does he know how you feel? Have you tried to make plans with him, only to get shot down? If he won't make arrangements to fit your schedule, doesn't call you regularly, and balks at any talk of committment, this may not be the relationship you're looking for. Even if you are okay with just dating him casually, he should respect you enough to call you and make plans, not just to show up at your door or call you on his way over. Start being "busy" when he pulls his drop-in-when-I-feel-like-it routine. See what he does. If he doesn't start respecting that you have a life of your own and deserve to know when you can expect to see him, dumping him is your best option.
2007-01-25 09:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't be available every time he wants to come around. Be busy, have prior commitments, go out with friends. Maybe he'll get it through his thick skull that a relationship is made up of give and take, and he can't always expect you to be waiting for him, while he retains the right to go off and do his own thing.
2007-01-25 09:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is just using you really tell you the truth all that coming around when he feels up to it that means it has to be someone else in the picture not giving him what he wants or he is just a player.
2007-01-25 09:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by cuttie1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna feel used and be stepped all over go ahead, so NO dump that jerk asap. You deserve better than that, value yourself more. He isnt the only guy around is he??
2007-01-25 09:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!...
i can tell you why he only comes aroudn when he wants to, becuz he either has kids and a wife and she don't let him out whenever. she comes by to see u whenever he can
and i bet everytime he comes around you guys have sex. if thats not the case then he's using you like a h0e. im sroryr to say..
how often do u talk to him on the fone. can u ever talk to him late in the night. if not he's sleepign with soemone else...
think about it sweetie
2007-01-25 09:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by phatguyanesegurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you like to be treated like that, yeah, you should dump him. Don't even bother with a long talk, just don't be around when he decides to show up.
2007-01-25 09:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is a commitment, it cant be one sided. Tell him to get lost, he obviously doesn't care about how you feel or when you may need him, he is only around to satisfy his physical needs.
2007-01-25 09:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by borillion_star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one else turned him down you are second choice and NO WOMAN deserves SECOND Place!!!
Move On... You will be better off for it. Just don't make the same mistake twice.
2007-01-25 09:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by aka.rene 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dump him and keep your dignity. he sounds like a loser who will dump you for someone else as soon as he gets a chance so mash his pride and tell him it's over
2007-01-25 09:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by ahsatin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because that only shows he cares about his needs and not your own. I have been through the same thing and it never changes.
2007-01-25 10:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Kodessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋