if a guy is using you for sex, will sex last a long time? and will he ask you constantly if you are okay ..or will he tell you to tell him when to stop or when it hurts?
2007-01-25 09:27:12 · 17 answers · asked by jennifer a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always ask for a girl to tell me if I'm hurting her during sex. I've got to be careful and pleasing my partner is important.
Will sex last a long time? Like in hours or months? In any case, it varies and depends.
I've used and been used. The girl who used me didn't care about my sexual satisfaction what so ever. Just hers.
2007-01-25 09:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, your letting yourself be used for sex, so you need to ask yourself why this is. He isn't forcing you to screw him is he? To answer your question, he will stay as long as the sex is good or until you stop putting out. You should find yourself a man who can love you for more than just sex.
2007-01-25 17:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand, the sex usually doesn't last that long. It's a hop on hop off get it over with quick kind of thing and they usually don't care how the female feels in the process.
2007-01-25 18:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends entirely on the guy in question and how considerate he is in general. He may think it's just sex but happen to be a nice guy or alternatively really like you. Try asking him...
2007-01-25 17:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Orchid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex usually only lasts 5-30 minutes. Thing is, most girls only have enough lubricant for about 10 minutes.
If you are still into it, get some lubricating jelly from Wal-mart for about $2 and party on.
If you are not happy with the arrangement, cut it off and find someone who you are happy with.
2007-01-25 17:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let anybody use your body like that. They will have no consideration for how you are feeling and will probably start introducing sex acts that you are not in favor of.
2007-01-25 17:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys that use you girls for sex aren't the most considerate people in the world. Don't let a guy ever use you.
2007-01-25 17:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probly wont last long like in relationship terms
if he asks you if your ok that might mean he isnt or you look like your not into it.
Tell him what ever you want to tell him especially when it comes to your body
2007-01-25 17:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by loujitsu1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww.
dont have sex with a guy who is using you for sex.
if he is using you for sex, he is expecting sex.
not for you to tell him to stop.
honey your first time is gonna hurt,
but dont do it with this guy.
he isnt the one.
dont force it.
2007-01-25 17:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some act like this
2007-01-25 17:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋