so me and my girlfriend have ben dating for 4 months now and just recentley she asked me to not to get to attached to her what can this mean dose she want to wait longer till we get clocer or is she planing to break up with me?
2007-01-25 09:18:42 · 22 answers · asked by kkkk53564367 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it doest mean she wants to break-up it means she needs time and you have to give it to her when shes ready you'll notice but give her space so she can think
2007-01-25 09:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by JESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but it sounds as if she is giving a warning, and that she is on the verge of breaking it off. Why be in a relationship if you can't get attached to each other....it just doesn't make sense. I'd break up with her first..and save her the trouble.
2007-01-25 17:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real answer may never be known. what is known is that you should immediately ask her for a very clear explanation...then have a better idea of what to do next or if she is unwilling to tell you. Take a shower, style your hair, dress very cool and go to the very best place you can think of and start meeting new girls...women or friends in general start living again for yourself! Time will do the talking...
2007-01-25 17:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by BAILEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have feelings for another person. Most likely they're minor attractions but she could be saying this because she doesnt want you to get hurt. She could also be saying it because she doesn't want to get attached herself and is afraid of getting hurt. Or simply she could just not be ready for anything too serious.
2007-01-25 17:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by cameraxwhore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start looking for a new girl Justin. She doesn't want you too attached because she's not very attached to you. She's keeping you until something better comes along.
2007-01-25 17:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by magicman116 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's just saying, she's not ready to get into a serious relationship yet. It doesn't sound like she wants to break up with you.
2007-01-25 17:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Chihuahua Lover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not sure about your relationship and may break up with you and she doesnt want you to be in love with her if she does. i have had a boyfriend since october and i dont like him anymore but im scared to break up with him because he REALLY likes me and i dont want to hurt his feelings. i think this girl and i feel the same way. you guys should talk about your feelings for eachother and see what happens next.
2007-01-25 17:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or talk 2 her about it hed prob explain
why unless shes cheating or planning
a breakup if she doesnt give a realistic
reply dump her
2007-01-25 17:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Linda Lou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has feelings for someone else and this is a nice way of telling you. Move on with your life. Good Luck!
2007-01-25 17:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has her eyes on other guys but doesn't want to lose you in case things fall through.
Just a girl spreading her wings.
2007-01-25 17:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋