Me and this guy have been dating for a little over a month and i told him that i liked him and i asked him what his feelings were towards me were. And he said "the time that we have spent together has been very enjoyable". What does that mean?
2007-01-25 09:07:39 · 22 answers · asked by Jalana 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he is unsure about you. He enjoys spending time with you but is definitely not in love. Enjoy the time you have and do not constantly question him. It will push him away from you.
2007-01-25 09:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Andee21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it at face value. He likes spending time with you and he wants to keep doing so and that's good enough for him right now. It sounds like you're a little further along than he is in terms of your relationship, if you can even call it that after a month. Give him a little bit longer because it really sucks when two people who are together aren't in the same place. It might just take him a little more time to catch up to you.
2007-01-25 17:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by kungfumasterzod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, that was a really vague answer! Now, there's a small chance that he isn't really interested and doesn't want to lead you on, but what I think it is, is one of two things:
1) He doesn't know how he feels about you yet, and he's still confused, so he spits out a safe answer because he doesn't want to lead you on. Or...
2) He does like you. But guys tend to think that, when you ask that question, you're looking for a commitment. Maybe not love, but *some* kind of a commitment. He may like you a lot, but he doesn't want the relationship to get any more serious than it is - that answer may be all he was able to think of, because he isn't ready to say "love", or anything close, yet.
2007-01-25 17:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sailor Jupiter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he enjoys spending time with you, but has no strong feelings towards you, nor any intention to have a long term commitment. In short, he'll enjoy it while it lasts, but won't be sad or upset (or work to get you back) if you say "take a hike".
Of course, over time he *may* develop feelings for you, but he may not. One month is too soon to be looking for "I love you", but after a month "I like you" is a perfectly reasonable thing to expect. You should probably tell him to take a hike now rather than later, before you start loving him.
2007-01-25 17:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That answer is your bet that he doesn't have the mirror feelings that you have for him. He finds that enjoyable means you're like all of his friends, not anyone special. In other instances, depending on the way he said it, he just coulda flinched and said the wrong words.
Or... he could have been referring to the past times you had together. Be more specific
2007-01-25 17:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a little reserved, but he's having fun being with you. I would let some more time pass before bringing up any emotional questions because it doesn't sound like he is ready for that yet.
2007-01-25 17:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he likes to hang around with you and be around you, but he's not sure if it's as a friend or something more serious. Give him a little more time and dont; push, he'll figure it out soon enough :)
2007-01-25 17:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by magicman116 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He means that obviously he enjoys spending time with you but i'm not sure whether he mean he would just like 2 stay friend or that he luve you back.
2007-01-25 17:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by baby gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means 1 of 2 things it eather means that he has feelings for you and he wants to contiue the relationship with you or it means that he had a good time spending time with you and he is ready to move on
2007-01-25 17:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by musicsweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is not thinking of having a future with you. He just enjoys being with you until someone else comes his way.
2007-01-25 17:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by swampfox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋