ok so im in love with this that dont notice me but im starting to like my BEST friends BOYFRIEND i told my self that it cant happen becuase is in live with her but she likes him but not as much as he likes her so what should i do should i tell her i like him or should i keep it to myself?
2007-01-25 09:07:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep your feelings to yourself unless you want to lose your best friend and plus you don't know if he has any feelings for you at all. Also down here in the south we don't date best friends or a friends man that's wrong and it can come back on you its called karma
2007-01-25 09:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by cuttie1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey honey dnt u ever do that!! Just ask ur self which one of them is more valuable ur best friend or just some guy that u really dont know. Its just a crush believe me, leave it to pass some time i bet u wil stop loving that boy. Do ths 4 the best of urs never make fast desicion and be patient coz world always reward u better 4 that. And hey dont try 2 think about him even if they broke up, if u think she is a real friend and hold down to her.
Hey what the hell give it a shot, leave some time 2 go by but let it be alittle long.
God may help u n i wish i helped.
2007-01-26 09:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by run2therainbow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work out yr feelings for that boy, you are not being a true friend to yr friend, according to the type of relationship u to have , u should sort out yr feelings before u tell her anything, now, some might say confront yr feelings, and just tell the boy how u feel, and maybe that might work, but u will hurt yr friend very much. there are many ways in solving problems, maybe u should ask that questions ,
how do i get over my feelings for my friend
boyfriend? good luck, i know it must not be easy in that position, but be a big girl, and a good friend and find a way to let those feelings leave.
2007-01-25 17:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by ducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you like Kirk? Look at the qualities that you admire in him. How many of these characteristics are based on attitude and how many of these characteristics are based on physical appearance or wealth. If 90% of the attraction is to attitude and 10% the rest, you will probably never find a replacement. Go for it. If 50% or less is based on attitude and 50% or more is based on wealth or looks a replacement is just around the corner.
2007-01-25 17:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut, and fall in love with one of the hundreds of other boys you come into contact with every year. Period. If they break up, and your friendship can stand it, you can try to hook up -- but otherwise forget it.
2007-01-25 17:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you value your friendship with this girl? I ask because I guarantee you will lose this friend if you pursue her boyfriend, even if she doesn't like him that much.
2007-01-25 18:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by Big_Dog_Spike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honesty is the best policy but not always... you should consider first the feelings of your bestfriend... she loves the guy and so be it... dont ruin their good relationship and so as your good friendship to her... just find another man who can have you... dont let your feelings ruin everything... ^.~
2007-01-25 17:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm falling for a best friend is sometimes hard
i think you should tell him.
i fell for my bestfriend to and he acculty liked me to and he asked me out and now we are going out.. almost 1 year =]
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-25 17:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mashka kakashka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will destroy your friendship if you pursue him. Which is more important to you?
2007-01-25 17:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Therious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself.
2007-01-25 17:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by K-E-G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋