im young..18 n still in high school(senior)..and he is 19 n has already finished high school...i love him...but am i rushing into things? like we talk about the future as though we r goin to be together forever, move in, get married, have kids....idk..its kinda startin to confuse me idk wat to think...or how to talk to him about this..me and him r very open we talk about everything....but idk how to bring this up w/ him...
2007-01-25 08:55:38 · 2 answers · asked by GiiGii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes Ur rushing in to a situation that could be painful to you. You must finish school 1st. What R Ur goals in life? At 19 he still doesn't have a clue about survival in the world, responsibility & taking care of someone. I'm not saying he's dumb or anything like that. You very well be together forever but you have to have good communication for a relationship to last. Is he your best friend? Since you can talk open about everything I suggest yall sit down & talk. You need to address the future, plans, goals, careers & in general everything that is bothering you. It is true about if love is meant to be it will be. Without going into that personel story believe me on that. I hope this helps you or at least gave you some things to think about.
2007-01-25 10:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Blues Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you still have alot of time to think about marriage kids and moving in just make sure you guys are on the same page.
2007-01-25 09:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by cuttie1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋