And Ran To This Shelter I Went To Before A While Ago And Then I Got There And They Call My Parents And I Refused To Go Home And Then I Spent The Night There And Then In The Morning The Took To This School I Goto And They I My Father Was Supose To Pick Me Up From School And I Was Like HELL Freakin No And I Refused To Go Home With Him And The Early My Father Open A DSS Case That I Havd Before But It Close And I Didnt Know And Back To The Story I Was Likee I Dont Wnat To Go Home But They Were Like U Have To Go Home For The Weekend Before U Can Be Place Or Put In A Group Home I Was Like I Dont Wnat To Go Home And I Was Like I Just Ranaway From My House And Youre Sending Me Back That Stupid And They And I Had To Make A Contact For Safey And So I Wouldnt Run A Away Agian And Now I Hav To Wait Three Days Till I Get Place Out Of My House And I Like Dont Know What To Do And This I Crazy And Im Only 14 Dont You Think That Crazyy But Ya Umm All Im Asking For Is Some Advice Or Just Some Encourage
2007-01-25 08:54:36 · 11 answers · asked by Jason T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you have exhausted all your options than you have no choice.
2007-01-25 08:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is only a few days. Really you can leave the house to go to friends for the day and come home only to sleep until you are placed out. I mean, I am not sure if you are being abused or hit, but if you are then talk to your friends and see if you can stay there for a few days. Your safety is really important and if you can stay in your room most of the time. Remember you are leaving soon and just hang in there. I hope you are not being abused that would be a shame. Good luck and you may want to spend some time studying your language skills :) just looking at that question a little closer and you seem to be smart enough to use a computer, try that spell check at the top. HA-HA I just kidding with you. Stay in your room and get really involved in a good book. You can get lost in a good book.
Tracylyn S
2007-01-25 09:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not going to lash out and you and make you feel any worse. You left a lot of unanwered questions. Do you not want to go home because your parents are abusing you? Are you being rebelious because you are a teenager who does not understand? It is hard to be supportive when you don't know the whole story. I wish that I could help you but I don't know how.
I will tell you this. Sometimes things happen in life that just don't seem fair. Our parents do and make decesions for us and we may not always understand why. It is confusing. When you are a teenager, you feel so much older than that grade school kid or Jr high kid that can't seem to wipe their noses without talking it over with mother and father first. So try to look at yourself, if you are not being badly beaten, or verblely abused, or sexually for that matter, then you need to think about your conversations and what they have been about.
It is not easy to say well my parents are probably right, but you do need to exsamin the situation. I am not saying anything is your fault, I don't even know you, but you have the ability to work through this and work with your parents and them with you.
2007-01-25 09:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by trhwsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jason, why did you run away from home? If it is an abusive situation, physical, verbal, sexual then go to a counselor, pastor, professional so they can work it out legally. There are people to help you with this.
If you run away just because you don't like your parents or you don't like house rules, or similiar reason, you have to go back home. Sometimes it's hard to understand parents and why they do the things they do. Most of the time they have your best interest at heart and they love you very much.
Talk with them and really tell them how you feel WITHOUT getting an attitude or yelling at them. That just makes it worst.
If you don't understand something ask them why did they say that or why did they do that. Talk with them!
2007-01-25 09:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by DariusAA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're being abused in some way at your home, you'd be smart to stop rebelling and settle your a** down before you get in a real jam. Once you're in the public system, it's like having a rap sheet. Figure out what's bugging you and sit your parents down and talk about this. You don't want to be on the streets, that's for sure.
2007-01-25 09:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear young lady you have many issues that need resolving. Number one you are a runaway and can be arrested if your parents want to. You could very well end up in a home for runaways and believe me it's not a fun place to be. Suck it up go home get your schooling done, at least you have roof over your head, food, clothes and your friends. Do not throw your life in the toilet. PLEASE listen It will get better IF you go along with the program. Please do not continue down the road your on believe me the END could come quicker than you think. PLEASE go to a Church and ask for guidance. I only wish I could help you. Love and Respect your Friend Jim
2007-01-25 09:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen and listen closley... I have a bad home life too but unless you are being beaten you need to stick it out. four more years really isn't that long. I only have two. Blare your music and ignore them. If you are being beaten on the other hand than file for emancipation. I would like to discuss this further. This is something really serious. r0lynn@yahoo.com... Thanx
2007-01-25 09:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats crazy! and i think its stupid for them to do that. i think u should try to contact someone with higher power so u can explain to them exactly WHY ur running away. it would help. and i wish u luck with everything. and instead of staying in a shelter, i think u should stay with a friend for at least 4 says. then move to another friend so it wouldnt bother them. if their parents understand the situation ur in. i would take u in if we were friends.lol. but i hope everything works out and good luck. tell me how it ends up k? good luck!
2007-01-25 09:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by asmia-4-u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you run in the first place
2007-01-25 09:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by princess my 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing i couldnt understand ANYTHING! but it seems to me that you dont wann go home. HERES WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: ASK YOUR DAD TO TAKE YOU HOME BUT TELL HIM EXACTLY WHY YOUR MAD, AND EXACTLY WHY YOU LEFT, AND EXACTLY WHAT HE NEEDS TO DO TO MAKE YOU NOT RUN AWAY AGAIN!
2007-01-25 09:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by secretagentwd40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋