2007-01-25 08:27:51 · 51 answers · asked by Chas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, that stage past long ago, when you were a baby and thy cleaned your mess. No one ever will, not even your parents anymore.
No will you love somebody for who they are, so it's mutual.
2007-01-25 08:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes- YOU.
I think what you are really asking is this-
Is there anyone in the world who will be able to LIVE WITH exactly who I am?
This sounds a bit like a classified ad that reads,
" Will anyone ever want to buy my 1986 Honda Civic for $30,000 in the worn condition it is in right now?"
Gee, we don't really know you.
Ask yourself this question-
Would I marry ME right now and spend the rest of my life with ME just as I am at this moment?
If the answer is no, then please don't ask another human being to do something even you can not.
Look at all the reasons YOU wouldn't want to spend the rest of your life with YOU that YOU are in this moment and go about correcting the things you need to work on. When you have all that ironed out, someone spectacular will notice you for who you have become and they will love you as the you that you have become.
2007-01-25 08:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi Di 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're asking this question, I am assuming you are either single or in an abusive relationship. Well let me tell you, if you are in an abusive relationship, get out. just give it some time, try different people, and find someone who you are just CRAZY about, and is crazy about you back. If you're looking for someone just on the basis of looks, and if you just want someone to like the way you look, that's probably why things aren't working out for you. Look deep inside your heart, and just be pacient. No need to rush things, really, because when you find that certain somemone, like I have, you will just KNOW, and it will feel right. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-25 08:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, love is the one and only thing that is both amazing, and terrible at the same time. Love comes and goes, and throughout life your going to have great relationships, horrible ones, and ones that are too good to be true. I personally, do believe that there is that ONE special person that is meant for each and every single one of us....and you just havent found her yet... sometimes the best way to fall in love, is just to stop looking for it and let it come to you.... if you put too much emphasis on wanting to find someone who will love you for you, then you may pass up the one girl who always did look at you in that way.
live your life with honesty, trust, and kindness, and that wonderful karma will come back to you...sometimes you dont know when, or how, or who...but your going to find that one person who loves you for you......i guareentee it. relationships are hard, i know...but they are wonderful when it finally clicks. so hang on!
2007-01-25 08:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can answer that question, but you should ask yourself if you have qualities that someone could love?
Are you honest, giving, genuine, caring, thoughtful? Do you have integrity?
There are definitely people out there who won't try to change you, but if you're a mean, degrading and unhappy person...it'd be hard to love someone like that!
2007-01-25 08:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone for you out there. I spent years wondering if that special person would come along. I've been 11 yrs. with the man that accepts me and loves me no matter what. I have ailments galore, i am stubborn, feisty, and emotional. Faults and all, he is with me through it all. Good times and bad. And I am fortunate. I even love the in-laws and they love me. Hang in there.
2007-01-25 08:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is! You just have to wait and be patient and it will come! Patience is a virtue! Sometimes it will seem it is never going to happen but, when you least expect it, it will! I know this because I have a friend who went through the same thing for years of his life and then, when he least expected her, she found him! They are engaged to be married and are madly in love! It will come just be patient!
2007-01-25 08:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking so hard or it will never happen. Being that desperate to have someone love you is just asking for problems in the relationships your going to have. Let them love you not make them.
2007-01-25 08:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-25 08:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by Dally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is but, you should ask yourself can you love yourself for who you are? If the answer is yes then that person will find you through your own love for self.
2007-01-25 08:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, im sure there is, I dont have much success, but if you look, there are plenty of people you only see as mates, you can build a relationship with, just look around you collage/workplace, or local clubs, if you get friendly with someone, there is a chance you can build on it
2007-01-25 08:35:18 · answer #11 · answered by thankspeeps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋