There is this guy , we were talking for a few weeks. He seemed ok. He asked for a date. I agree to meet him. Then the night before the date, he calls me at 2 AM. Drunk, slurring his words, tells me he is to drunk to go out tomorrow, and to call him he might feel better to go. I was like whatever. That was about 3 months ago. Now, he calls and e-mails me, (4 times so far) saying he knows he is a jerk, and can we talk and go out. I felt that was wrong and very disrespectful. What would you guys do?????
2007-01-25 08:24:30 · 5 answers · asked by tigerprincess_bee 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Someone who has so little respect for you (not to mention so little interest) that he would get so trashed he already knows he'll be too hung-over the next day isn't worth your time. If he really liked you, he would have been too excited the night before to jeopardize your date - or, he would have dealt with the hangover the next day and met you for coffee. Plus, he has no right to call you at such an hour!
You wouldn't be asking this question if you were really into him or if you were okay with his behavior. Don't answer the phone, or if you do tell him you deserve more repect than this and don't see him again. Then go out with your friends and flirt it up!
2007-01-25 08:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious Gryphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out on one date with him. Find out what happened. Maybe, he changed. Who knows. It doesn't hurt to give it a try, and if he is still a jerk, don't see him again. Simple.
2007-01-25 16:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Just 1 Good Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...I'd say give him a go BUT! if you get a bad feeling during the date about what he's really after, dump him
2007-01-25 16:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and give him a second chance
2007-01-25 16:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by rednsweet4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. He had his chance and he screwed it up
2007-01-25 16:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋