we are like a family, my two kids and his one, we do everything together.we kiss, cuddle, hold hands.when i call and say hello his voice gets exicted.i can see it in his eyes.he wants to know everything about mey day, talks about my pets all the time.we go out often, sex is great but more importantly i can feel it in his kiss.ts been a year and a half and he hasnt told me he loves me, i havent either though what should i do?
2007-01-25 07:28:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do the same thing, obviously it is not that he doesn't love you. Its just that may be when he was a child his parents didn't say I love you very much or at all (which was my case), but they did show him love by their actions - Which is exactly how he is expressing it with you.
Always remember actions speak louder than words.
2007-01-25 07:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After a year and a half, I think somebody should say it. If you do, you'll be putting yourself out there, but by this time, if he is still around, he must feel something for you.
I would suggest that you say it. Make sure the kids aren't around in case it doesn't go well. I doubt that will be a problem, but better safe than sorry. I also would not do this after being intimate. I would wait for a time when you can talk without the distractions of a naked body next to you.
2007-01-25 15:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by kiera70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people, but mostly guys, have trouble with those 3 little words....I LOVE YOU....You may consider telling him how you feel (I suggest after sex)....but keep in mind you will be putting yourself out there....
and Quoting from my favorite show....It has the shelf life of a diary product, it will start to stink after a week.
May want to consider enjoying what you have and giving him time, he will tell you when he's ready. Sometime's it's no good to rush things. Sounds like you've got something not many people have. You should Cherish it.
2007-01-25 15:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By all means then tell him how you feel. Life is too short to play games and wonder how he really feels about you. It sounds like you are both afraid to say the "L" word. After a year and a half you should feel comfortable enough to tell him.
Good luck!
2007-01-25 15:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Redd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be a couple of things
#1 past relationships
#2 problems with mother growing up
#3 hes just not ready yet
#4 hes waiting for you to say it first
2007-01-25 15:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have you thought that maybe he hasn't said it for the same reason you haven't said it. If you love him don't hide your feeling from him. if hes such a special guy has you describe him to be then there shouldn't be a reason why he wouldn't say it back .
2007-01-25 15:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lolita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is great...so, what is the problem? Are you saying that you need the security of hearing him verbalise it??
He is in the exact same situation to you[you haven't told him either] just say it to him [if you mean it]!
2007-01-25 15:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont force it upon him. Women are so bent on hearing those words, but in reality, action speaks louder than words. His actions says it all.
2007-01-25 15:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why wait? If you love him and you know he loves you, just tell him. Could it be that he's thinking the same thing about you and why you haven't said it?
2007-01-25 15:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by Dawn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be he is proboly scared give him more time and if in 6 months still nothing talk to him tell him you need to know
2007-01-25 15:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋