Should i go with my ex-boyfriend's brother? Last year he was asking me out and i said no. then i got with his brother for a little while and while i was with his brother he was still trying to talk to me. I felt he was backstabbing he brother and i told him how i felt about the backstabbing. After me and his brother broke up he asked me again and i said i'd think about it. what should i do? he told me his brother knows about it all the time about him trying to holla at me. so should i believe him and go with him or what? but if i do go with him wont that seem kinda hoeish since i dated his brother? I'm so confused.
2007-01-25 07:26:57 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i broke up with my ex cuz i heard he had a baby on the way and a girlfriend in another state. and of course he denied it. the brother told me after the fact. i feel if you had true love for me u would have told me.
the brother was like it wasn't his place to interfere with me and my ex i then he should of been trying to get with me when i was with his brother. Am i right or am i wrong.
2007-01-25 10:06:49 · update #1
omg there are so many good answers its going to be hard to choose a best answer cuz so far i see at least three. thanx for all your answers so keep them coming but i kinda know what i'm going to do. thanx
2007-01-27 05:38:51 · update #2
I really don't know what to tell you. But i wouldn't even brother going out with none of them. Just move on to others guys. Personally i think that you are just playing games, you go out with one and then the brother. know your ex wants you back. I don't know about your feelings towards him. i would say stick with one or none if you really like him. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-01-25 07:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ex's brother is a creep! He was the one who told you about the girl and the baby on the way! I deal with facts! I take in what I hear in as gathering info, however I still have to build a case. The brother of you ex was really throwing salt in his brothers game.. come on now the game never changes..... only the players. Really do you think your ex knows that his brother is hitting on you? If he does then both of them are creeps! Girl run quick fast leave that family alone!
2007-02-01 20:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lady D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I wouldn't do it. If there's a doubt in your mind about it being right, it probably isn't. I mean the world isn't that small that you have to move on with somebody's brother. And plus, how do you think you're going to move on from your ex when you're still a part of the family almost? His brother might be asking you out to get back at his brother, but I wouldn't even take the time to find out.
2007-01-25 07:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by aggidiva 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A simple date wont hurt... Try to assess first if he's worth the trouble. Dont go too far though. Just see...
Personally, I did just that, and it didnt workout as fine as I expected. Well, partly because my ex-- the brother, was still into me... So i think it is important for you to be able to assess if this set-up is ok with all three of you. If there is even a small amount of doubt... better not risk it and just be friends--
2007-01-25 07:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by Stefani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you should the know the answer to that. Of course don't date him. That's your ex's brother! That's just plain wrong if you go out with him and plus it does make you look bad cuz then people are going to be saying damn she gone date the whole family now. Trust me don't do it, it will make you look bad. Plus your going to have that awkward feeling with your ex when your with his brother. His brother is an *** how can you do that to your own brother?
2007-02-02 04:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the brother that you already dated. If it's not going to cause a problem between them, then do out with brother #2. If your ex says that there is a problem, then stay away from it. They will have to work it out between themselves. #1 brother (your ex)played you, but brother #2 was put in an awkward position by wanting to protect his brother and not wanting to hurt you. He was right to stay out of it. That's the best info I can give you. Good luck. BTW, no it won't be whorish going out with #2.
2007-02-02 06:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on girl... U only want to ride on a set of tires once. Anytime u date someone from the same family, be it Uncle, Cousin, or Brother, you put yourself out there as looking like the doorknob that everyone is looking for, just to take a turn.
Dont do it!!!
2007-01-25 07:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by bnnychains 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me it would depend on how much you like the guy. I know of several people who dated another sibling and ended up marring them. Married now for around 37 years. Also who ended it, you or the brother? If the brother then it sounds to me like he is really over you. Good luck
2007-01-25 07:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Debbie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it kinda depends on how long you and his brother dated and how long you guys have been broken up. If you guys didn't date long and have been broke up for awhile then i say go for it..not hoeish to me at all..but if you guys dated for a couple of months and were serious then wait a month or two before you jump on his brother.
2007-01-25 07:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let them both have a go at you at the same time,
no seriously no the 1st one you went out with either liked you or used you is he says he doesnt care he's either lying or just used you i trip out if my ex girlfreinds go out with any of my freinds much less a brother so your options are this either do 'em both at the same time so they feel equal or tell the other brother no there will be problems if you hook up with the other brother now
with out doing em both at the same time oh and it'll only hoish
if people know about it dont get caught slut
2007-01-25 07:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋