I am seeing a guy that works out of state a lot. He is only home 1 or 2 weekends of the month. He wants us to be in a real serious relationship and talks about getting married, building a house, having kids, etc. What I liked about him most was that he was such a nice sweet guy. Problem....maybe not????
He forwarded me a text message that said "I wanna f**k you so bad...." When I asked who sent him that, he hesitated and said that it was a girl he met when working out of state last year. .....he said that she was a stalker and won't stop texting him....blah blah blah. Since then, I have checked his phone and he calls her as well as she calls him. When I asked about it joking because he is working there now (not telling him I knew) he said he doesn't like her and NEVER talks to her.
He knows I have guy friends & wouldn't care if he had girl friends, why would he lie? Does it mean that there is something more going on? Or am I just looking for a way out?
2007-01-25 07:26:48 · 11 answers · asked by CPA2B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is something more going on. The question is why would you be ready to settle down with a guy you barely know and see. How will you have "a serious relationship" when he is only home 1 or 2 weekends in a month. He sounds like a player. Find someone else.
2007-01-25 07:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, I'm a guy and he is playing the she's a stalker card. Yea right... Would you call a stalker back? It may be hard to come to grips with but he's a cheater. Break up with him and tell him the only way you can get back together is if he tells the truth about her and absolutly stick to your guns, he will eventualy admit something, probably not everything. He'll say they just "went out once" or "just kissed once". When he admits it tell him to F-OFF and get with his best friend.
2007-01-25 07:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by dfisk30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 80%
2016-03-29 02:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to get it all out of his system before he marries you and buys a house and has kids and gets strapped down for the of his frequen life.
Let the man have his fun out of state until you're married. Just make sure that you are his fun while in state.
Hope this helps!!!!
p.s. do'nt get caught checking out his s**t, or there may never be a wedding...
2007-01-25 07:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by wedged15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely he is not for you. If you caught him in a lie, then he will lie again to cover it up. You deserve better than that. I don't want to discourage you from being with him if he is what you want, but watch him closely for a while. Don't get in too deep.
2007-01-25 07:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP THE FREAK! he is lying to you, it would be my bet that he has a little "tail" waiting for him in every area he works in. Probably telling them each the same thing he's telling you.
2007-01-25 07:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really expect to live with a guy that will probably end up cheating on you..
2007-01-25 07:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he is denying it, there's more to it than what you are being told. Be very careful to not get too deeply involved.
2007-01-25 07:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's in their blood. They do it once, they'll do it again. I've learned my lesson well, I don't trust people like that any more.
2007-01-25 07:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if something wasn't going on there he wouldn't have lied when you ask if he talks to her. so he's hiding more than just him talking to her from you. i'd be skeptical if i were you.
2007-01-25 07:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by Back*To*Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋