I got a problem...yesterday my girl accidently got into my myspace....?

Question

I was having a conversation with a friend from high school, and the girl said "I was still cute", and me without thinking wrote back and said the same...I by no means really meant it, its just something I say when I hear that comment made towards me....well so she saw that and was and still is very upset...I don't know what to do?....I mean I have told her that I didn't mean it, and I am not attracted to anyone other than her in that manner....I'm scared she is going to leave me...please give me some good feedback

Tothe last persons response that I saw she is all over my myspace page...pictures of us everywhere....myspace.com/blmiller2002...you can take a look if you want....my page has been like that for months....I have no intentions on stepping out on her...I love her to death

Answer 1

If your girlfriend has absolutely no reason to doubt your faithfulness, and only you know if she does or not, then she is very insecure. Mistrust can destroy what might have been a perfectly good relationship otherwise, just as dishonesty can. One suggestion is that you give each other your passwords for MySpace. No secrets. It might help build the trust back up again. According to what you have stated, what your girlfriend did, by invading your privacy, showing lack of trust, is much worse than complimenting someone of the opposite sex with whom you once went to school with. But, as I said before, only you know if her distrust is in any way justified.

Answer 2

Well, if you gotta let her know that shes the one u want to be with, and no one else, and just because u think or say another girl is cute, that doesnt mean that you want that girl over her. It's nothing more than a complement. There's lots of pretty girls out there, but that doesnt mean you would leave your girl for someone else. You just have to let her be sure of that. Good luck man.

Answer 3

Just say the same thing you just said to us. Hopefully she will get over it, it doesn't seem like that big of a deal. At least you are looking for help and are concerned, it shows that you care and didn't mean any harm.

If she has a big problem with it and won't get over it, try to do something that says that you care about her, like write her a note, give her a card, or flowers or a stuffed animal. Or just do something nice like washing her car or clean up something up for her. Just show her in your actions, not just your words, that you didn't mean to make her mad.

Just make sure you don't start acting like you did something horribly wrong. Don't act guilty, just concerned that you made her mad and try to watch your words with other females. Try to know what your girlfriends limits are on how you interract with other females.

Answer 4

I understand. Let me ask ya this: if she leaves you bc she didn't believe you when you told her the truth, do you really think that that relationship would have been a good one? I mean, you tell her the truth, but she can't believe you...that's, like, unhealthy. If she leaves you, there really isn't anything you can do about it.
Try repeatedly explaining it to her like you did here. Tell her the whole truth. If she's understanding and not a controlling person, then she'll probably get it. If she still doesn't believe, it's not lookin' good for ya.
Good luck.

Answer 5

She 'accidently' got into your myspace huh? THATS mistake number 1. Number 2 if she doesnt trust you or if she blows up because you tell someone they are cute SHE has issues. Where in the dating handbook does it say you are not allowed to give other people compliments...she needs to get a grip and get a REAL problem.

Answer 6

I wish I had your problems. Tell your girl that she is being very immature, cause giving somebody a compliment is not something your partner should be upset over, I mean come on now, what was you supposed to say "thank you but you're ugly" :)

Answer 7

OOOOOOOh, Dude!!! You jacked it up! I'm not sure that you CAN convince her that you were just being polite back to that woman! Your girl sounds like the "jealous type" and as you PROBABLY already know, "THOSE" can be very difficult to reason with. I guess I'd just tell you to REMIND her SINCERELY, how much you love HER and maybe bring her a small gift..and apologize again. I think that would work for me, if you were TRULY sincere...G'LUCK BABY! =)

Answer 8

i just dumped my boyfriend for that very reason. ya see... i was suspecting something with him and this other girl, well my sister printed out his myspace and showed it to me. there were pictures of him and this girl that i don't like at all. I broke up with him because he said he hates sluts, people who wear makeup, and flirts. well she is all of those things! that's why i got upset. Oh yeah i was going out with him for three years and because he wan't true to who he was, i dumped him. i love him like hell i can't stop thinking about him. But he wasn't honest with me. i suggest you get rid of all the explisit pics, or delete your mypace completely!!! i will never go out with him ever again after i saw that myspace. i was hurt, he was making commnts like that and i was starting to think something. you better apologize big time. if you break her heart, you may never get her back again. find a song of how you feel and play it or her.

Answer 9

well as the parent of teenage boys they have gotten themselves in same problem many times..i tell my firends they are cute all the time and if you truely arent involved with someone else then stick to your guns with your gurl.but also ask your self .r u committed completely and why would you seek out compliments from other if you are truely happy with who your with.....maybe you could post big comment on your my space and let the girls know that u are committed and let your girl read this one ,maybe that help her with trust.good luck

Answer 10

just tell her that you love her so much and that u cant picture yourslef with anyone else, and she is the one u want to grow old with (if u feel that way) and that if she leaves you it will break ur heart forever. and b sure to tell her that it wuz just some high skewl friend, and she sed it about you so u needed to say something back adn it coudn't b 'well, ur not, cuz i have a girlfriend'. and remeber: DO NOT RAISE YOUR VOICE!!! make sure to keep a soft caring voice and doont get angry if she wants to talk more aobut it, just say ok, and talk about it. that is the only way it will get fixed. good luk*