Can anyone help me not be so crazy over a guy?
Ok whenever I start talking to a guy and i really like him, I start getting so jealous if he talks to other girls or he doesn't say something right and then I start freaking out that he might not like me anymore..blah blah blah. I get that all the time and it is like the biggest turn-off for guys and then I'm stuck crying over him. Can someone tell me some things I can do to not be like that? I am a afraid I will like never get married or something because the guys like me, but when they start to find out that I become OBSESSED with them they try to get out?
Any suggestions?
2007-01-25 06:08:23 · 8 answers · asked by KATiE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try this, crazy as it sounds: Don't date anyone for the next year. Don't even think about having a crush or anything. When you find yourself tempted, turn your thoughts away to yourself. Figure out how you can meet your own needs and give yourself all the reassurance you need.
Then you will be strong enough not to flip out over the thought of losing a guy... because you will know that you can make it on your own and be happy.
2007-01-25 06:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! Your "problem" is often among women. Try always to look at the bride side of life especially when it is difficult to find it. Don't pay somuch attention on the future of a relationship because this makes you anxious, stressed and exert pressure on guys. Make an effort just to enjoy every moment of your life without carrying what is next. Enjoy all your relationships and not be panic with marriage. You're also perfect and powerful alone, you don't need marriage to be happy and complete. Good luck!
2007-01-25 14:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as you mature, you'll be able to control that obsessive aspect of your personality. You seem like a warm, sweet, kind, and sensitive woman. You just have to believe you are that kind of person and gradually, you'll be able to understand why you feel the way you do about guys you go crazy over.
2007-01-25 14:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tones 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't overanalyze. Have fun. Enjoy life. If you like a guy, then enjoy the feeling. Don't worry whether he likes you back or not. The secret is to enjoy your life and yourself because then, you will not overanalyze things too much and you will become more attractive because you are much more fun to be with. ;-)
2007-01-25 14:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by curiousitywillnotkillcat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to look at yourself to see all the good qualities about yourself, build up your confidence and remember that not evryone is going to like you so if a guy doesn't, it saves you the time looking for someone who will!!
2007-01-25 14:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church and ask God to help you; also, I would try to
see a counselor about this. Maybe you have borderline
depression from something that happened in your past.
Pray, and God will help you find someone right for you.
2007-01-25 14:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by judy f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably one of those people who, when they love, they LOVE ALOT. Until you find someone like that who likes you, dont bother with anyone else.
2007-01-25 14:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by DeezNutz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to work on yourself!!
2007-01-25 14:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by shorty21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋