Lets say that you are not really good at attracting Women/Men... then you get a girlfriend....
but in the process that you have the girlfriend...
you find a method that increases your chances of attracting Women/Men....
and lets say that you can get any Women/Men attracted to you instantly...
Would you leave your Girlfriend/Boyfriend....?
Honestly would you.... Deep down... even if you really really loved / liked / enjoyed them
Would you?
2007-01-25 06:04:18 · 29 answers · asked by david r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No.
2007-01-25 06:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're playing a dangerous cat and mouse game with unsuspecting individuals. It also shows a bit of insecurity within yourself. If you're with someone whom you deeply care about why risk losing it? You should never play with the emotions of others for sport, which is what you would be doing. Just because a person looks good to you doesn't mean you're going to have fun in the end. How would you like it if someone made you think they wanted to be with you, when all they wanted was the game...........My answer to your question is no...I am attractive, and meet men everyday, but, I'm true to the one I love. Always remember that forbidden fruit always looks good on the outside, but that first and only bite can be more than you bargain for.........
2007-01-25 14:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Star1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loved/Liked/Enjoyed... big difference between those terms. So it depends on which one it is. In any case, if you could make the opposite sex attracted to you instantly than you wouldn't have to leave your partner. Theoretically you could have them along with any other partner that you wanted, Instantly.
If you were really in love, you wouldn't need to attract anyone else. If you were really in love you'd keep the girl friend and lose the secret, magical method of attraction.
2007-01-25 14:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Leohades 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens to every single person on earth. Is called Growing Up. As years go by, you learn that it is much more easy to seduce and get attention that you though it was when in your teenage days.
Now, would I leave my wife? Obviously not, after almost 10 years of being together, we could not be happier, and we both flirt around with others if we like them, just to have some fun, and at the same time our relation cannot be better!
2007-01-25 14:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like another answerer said, lose your current relationship and watch your "method" crumble to dust.
It happens all the time: Boy can't get girl. Boy finally meets a girl that likes him. Boy dates girl and gains confidence. Now boy is attracting more girls because he has an air of confidence about him. Boy dumps the girl that liked him, and all his flaws, for the 'hotter' girl that is intrigued by the confident boy with a girlfriend.
Thin ice my friend. Thin ice.
2007-01-25 14:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by jeffe55106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. Do you still feel the same way about them as u did before? If the answer is yes then no I wouldnt. But if the answer is yes I probably would and go for a better girlfriend/boyfriend.
2007-01-25 14:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if I was shallow - but as I am not and I have never had problems attracting men or women (come to that) then personally no I wouldn't - as you get older you realise that there is more to life and relationships than lust and sex
2007-01-25 14:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why leave someone you love to find other people to love? Your decision to stay with someone should be based, not of the other options available to you, but the quality of the existing relationship. If it's not right with them, or you know you are incapable of staying faithful, then breaking up is the right thing to do. If you have a good relationship that shows potential for the long-term, you won't want to leave it.
2007-01-25 14:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. I love my boyfriend. It wouldnt matter if I attracted every guy in this world, no one means as much to me as he does. If you would leave your girlfriend just simply because other people are attracted to you, you don't need to have a girlfriend. And if you loved someone completely, like "really really loved" someone, you wouldn't leave them just because someone else things you are attractive.
So, I say no.. but that's just me . .
2007-01-25 14:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by *CaRpE*DiEm* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Just because if this person was attracted to me without me trying then why in the world would I leave for someone that I had to try to attract?
2007-01-25 14:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to try this method, then you don't really love your gf./bf You don't even respect her/him. If you are feeling all confident now, that's great. But it does not mean rip away other peoples. Your gf/bf will feel like she's/he's not good enough. Remember how you felt when you WERE NOT confident, would that scenario crush you? I THINK SO!
2007-01-25 14:15:34 · answer #11 · answered by cookie4me_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋