so i met this guy iworked with and we hit it off really fast.great friends.about a year ad a half ago we started to hang out, we would kiss and cuddle, then a month later came the sex.but we worked together then, so we were just friends.well he came back into my life about 9 months ago, he calls all the time, we go places with our kids.and he is happy just sitting and watching tv at one of our houses.just hanging out.our sex is still amazing, the most inportant part of it is kissing.he would do anyhing if i needed it, however we havent had the relationship talk.i asked him the other night what i was to him, and he said you are jessica, and im gene.i went to bed mad, it just seems like he is araid of that conversation, even though i really feel that it is a relationship, and i hope he loves me.i know i love him.what should i do?does he love me or are we still friends in his eyes?
2007-01-25 05:55:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jessica sounds to this old guy like he is very much involved in a relationship but may be afraid to admit it aloud or to himself even for that matter. In my humble opinion it would be in your best interest to sit him down alone some night after the kiddies have gone to bed. Then in a very mature and open manner lay all of your cards on the table and be honest with him when sharing your feelings. Ask him to do the same in return and let him know that your feelings have been hurt previously by his responses and that you want an honest to goodness answer. Communications, although sometimes difficult or uncomfortable is very important in all relationships. If you are happy with his response then you'll be able to answer your question posed on this site yourself. Best of luck.
2007-01-25 06:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman, he's utilising you. A 33 365 days previous guy in his top strategies shouldn't want something sexual to do with a 17 365 days previous woman. you assert you're mature? A mature 17 365 days previous could comprehend what I purely reported, and does no longer be on yahoo solutions to ask this type of question. I dated a guy that became 26 whilst i became 17, and he actual used me. i did no longer comprehend it on the time, yet as i've got grown up i found out he had and that i became no longer mature adequate to guard that relationship. once you become previous, you will understand. he's likewise been with greater advantageous than 4 females, believe me. They use that on you to make you experience as though they have not gotten around as lots. He cares approximately your vagina, and that's it. What interior the international does Oral even ought to do with your question? you will be able to desire to take a step back and evaluate the situation.
2016-11-01 06:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's getting sex without having to be in a relationship. He probably feels like the luckiest guy in the world right now. He's not going to change and want to be your boyfriend all of the sudden. To him, this is the perfect situation. If you try to push him for a relationship, I bet he will disappear.
2007-01-25 06:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's no committment then you two are just friends like he said. He didn't say you are my woman/girlfriend, he just gave you your answer. Although you two boyfriend/girlfriend relationship if he doesn't even want to talk about it then he might not have intentions of taking it any further than friends. If you are happy with you current situation wait until he is ready to committment. However, it seems like you are ready to be more than friends, then ask him does he want to be in a relationship with you. If he doesn't answer or avoids it, you need to find someone who is willing to settle down with you.
2007-01-25 06:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that question, you know he's just using you for sex. You don't have a relationship- he's the chick he screws, no strings attached, because that's all you offered him. He's not afraid of anything, he's having sex with you and he doesn't even have to pay for it. You're not even friends. You're sex only.
2007-01-25 06:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe as a man that you are still friends in his eyes with benefits
i hate to say that but it is the truly, the next time it ever happens with him or any man ask him who Jessica is because it is someone that he is thinking about, or at least his mind is spending time with.
drop me a line sometime if you want to talk
till then
jim
fishbigjim@yahoo.com
2007-01-25 06:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by James B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well obvisiously in his eyes he may see you as someone who he can spend his life with and he said that because he was afraid. Maybe he's been hurt before but never the less he probably was being soo serious!
2007-01-25 06:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by lady_prep7 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The second one.
2007-01-25 06:17:21 · answer #8 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is afraid, but if its like a relationship wat would be the difference? Gurl... if you like it the way it is dont worry about it.... if your not ask him and tell him your being serious..... see wat he says..... Im in da same situation but im not worrying about y cuz i have said to my self if its meant to be it will be..... and not worry about and to be honest its coming around just fine and slow the way i want it........ think about i think ur more than friends and he knows it but dont wanna admited..... so good luck!!!
2007-01-25 06:13:11 · answer #9 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? You just his F **K buddy. Face it. Read what you said and that will show you.
2007-01-25 06:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋