Okay the thing is....
Im turning 15 on the 11th. Ive been with my boyfriend Keith for almost 6 months. It will be 6 months on the 9th. He doesnt go to my school and I only get to his him for a couple of hours a week. I love him to death but the thing is I made freinds with a guy at my school named Anthony. He is so sweet and so smart. I.... like.... him. I really do an I feel really bad about it. I really love Keith but I really like Anthony. None of my friends know. They think we are just friends.
Tell me is it really bad for me to have a little crush on Anthony? Is it normal. Keith is my first real relationship. Im really scared. Please help me.
Is it right? What should I do?
2007-01-25 05:20:04 · 6 answers · asked by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not wrong to be attracted to other ppl. Its normal. But remember u said u like anthony, but u love Keith. That speaks for itself.
2007-01-25 05:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is absolutely normal to feel to have crushes. The question really is, Is Anthony worth ruining your relationship with Keith? Are feelings that strong that you want to jeopardize your first real relationship on a crush. If you have something substantial and real with Keith, would you want to lose it for something that is unknown and new?
If this is the first real relationship and it has already lasted 6 months, you might just be getting that whole, "I miss the new, fun and exciting stuff at the beginning." Half the appeal of Anthony might just be the fact that he is someone new and he's already at your school. When you sit down and think and this, who are you happier with? All it comes down to is what makes you happy! Good Luck!
2007-01-25 13:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen im in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend ive been dating for 5 months and i started liking someone that i go to college with. so im in the smae situation as you. Stick with your boyfriend and tell him how you fell. PLus you should be lucky to see your boyfriend only a couple hours a week i see mine one weekend every 2 months but we r trying to make it work. but like i said tell him how you fell. #2 does this Anthony guy like you? Find out. and #3 this is my opinion plus i had experience if all esle fails because your 15 for girls and guys your age it really doesnt work out but sometimes it does. see what happens. stick with your boyfriend and if nothing changes after you talk to him then decide...
2007-01-25 13:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ex- Cheerleader 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong to have crushes on other guys. Unless your cheating. It's not cool and I don't think much of cheaters or one that lies.
I seemed to stay with my one boyfriend from 7th grade through a few years after high school. He managed to be friends with all my male friends. To date, we're all still friends because we showed respect for one another.
How I wish I would have filled up my stables with more stallions back then. Oh well.... life goes on. Good luck honey!!
P/S - HAPPY BIRTHDAY ! !
2007-01-25 13:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick wit keith. after all hes ur bf.
2007-01-25 13:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on pimpin!
2007-01-25 13:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋