To ask or not to ask.... that is the question people... HELP?

Question

I'm 20, she's 19, and we both live with our parents. We've been talking on the phone for about a month now, but we only went out once (our schedules haven't crossed lately). She's been caring for her son around the clock all week because he had a bad fever and has been sick. After school today (around noon? or 1?), I was going to offer to bring her lunch, and maybe hang out with her at her house for a while. I'm NOT looking to get into bed with her (yet), but I'd still feel wierd kind of inviting myself over like that.

I don't think her parents will be home that's why.
Is it too soon to do this?

I've never had a relationship before so I don't quite know this kind of stuff.

Answer 1

It would be better if she invites you over not asking her if you can come over so u 2 can have luch together and try not to rush anything just give it a little bit of time -k-
Good Luck!

Answer 2

I guess it really boils down to if you have met her son yet. You have to be diligent and very careful when it comes to situations such as this, because a woman with a child isn't looking for "fun and games" she is rather looking for someone to fit the mold of a provider, husband and father figure to her child.

Answer 3

What's the harm in asking? Let her know you'd like to do something nice for her. If she's up to it, she'll think it's very thoughtful of you. If she's not up to it, she'll let you know. After a month of talking on the phone, you gusy should feel like you can be honest with one another. Good Luck!

Answer 4

it would be a nice gesture, but instead of staying just drop it off and chit chat for a few minutes that way you won't be getting in the way of her taking care of her son, but at the same time, she will think about you when you leave.