I'm clever,nice and kind guy,I study dentistry and doing well in my studies but I'm ugly and I hate myself for that and what's worse is my problem is only getting deeper,sometimes I can't look at myself in the mirror.
I tried so hard to love myself but I can't,whenever I go out my problem begin,in college,mall....everywhere.
people just talk about me or ignore me like I don't exist when I'm talking to them.
what can I do to love myself and feel better?
2007-01-25 05:16:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be more confident in your actions. People probably aren't talking about you, but you feel self conscious and assume that they are. Think about all the qualities you dislike about yourself, and why you dislike them. After you've done that, think about how you can change those qualities. Even trying to change for the "better" will make you feel better about yourself.
2007-01-25 05:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by crystal_99022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww u poor soul i think i know the feeling. First and foremost we have only 1 life why waste it in a useless pursuit?. Secondly take half an hour out of your schedule and practise by standing in front of the mirror, looking at yourself in the eye and accepting yourself for what u are. I guess once you are able to do that u will feel a bit better. And also try to improve your confidence by focussing more on your positive values than the negative ones. Looks are not everything, once u sum up some confidence it will automatically make u shine and u know what, if someone really likes u they will accept u for what and who u are, go ahead buddy, face facts and live life king size
2007-01-25 13:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For someone to love one self you first have to change what you determine to be a person worth loving. If " looks" is the only thing you feel determines a persons self worth, then how can you accept yourself if you say you do not find yourself to be attractive. Look around you, expand your vision and focus on the people around you. Do you not see unattractive people that are loved, have many friends, succeeded in life? Look at movie stars. Are all movie stars attractive, are not some not attractive but there is something about them that makes them so? You have to look within yourself, bring out all the good you have within, extend all that goodness within you to other people. Once you learn to love yourself you will gain a confidence that no one, no stares or sneers from other people can break. Confidence say to people," hey I have a lot to offer, I am worth loving". People are attracted to someone who ex-cells a healthy confidence within themselves. Hope I have been of help to you.
2007-01-25 13:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God loves EVERYONE including you pal. The world has put way too much on looks alone. Sounds like you are a good guy. There are alot of aholes out there and you are that much ahead becuz of that. Dont be so hard on yourself. There's someone out there for you that's a perfect match. You just havent found her YET. You will. Be positive. Negativity is a waste of your positive energy !!!
2007-01-25 13:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality can make the ugliest person beautiful. if you show people you arn't confident with yourself, they will look down on you, BUT if you look at yourself with confidence, the whole mood will change. negativity doesn't get you anywhere in life. you can have everything you want, but still be miserable. you are who you are and you can't change that. unless you want to get plastic surgery, but i think that is a sign of weakness. if you don't feel like looking at yourself in the mirror, do it anyway and smile. as for other people "ignoring" you, don't even bother worrying about them, they arn't worth your time and energy. you arn't going to wake up one morning and be like oh my gosh! i love myself! but eventually you will. just give it time.
2007-01-25 13:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by xhomegrownlovex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to quit calling yourself ugly, it you think that then of course you won't be happy with yourself...Second if there are physically attributes that can be change that you do like then change then( for instance if you don't like your hairstyle, don't like the way you dress), those are things that you can improve to boost you confidence...
2007-01-25 13:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by smartiebc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay no attention to the loooooosers ! Do the things you enjoy doing and fook the rest !
2007-01-25 13:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon you'll be a dentist and you can love yourself for your fat wallet which is more attractive to most women than a pretty face.
2007-01-25 13:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not kidding here...
You need plastic surgery or personal counselling
2007-01-25 13:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KNOW UR BETTER QUALITIES AND FEEL URSELF ON CLOUD 9
2007-01-25 13:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by sweet bhullar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋