I've met this girl just recently, and we've become good friends so far. Right now, I do not plan to take the relationship past the friends mark. I just want to be friends with her for now. I've only known her for about 3 months, and we are into each other. The problem is that Valentines day is coming up, and i dont know if i should get her anything. If i dont want more than just being friends, should i get her sumthing? By giving her sumthing, doe sthat mean i want to take the realtionship further(which i dont). Plz help!
2007-01-25 04:58:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you only get her a "friend"ly Valentine card i think you should be ok. There are Valentine cards you can but for regular friends.
She'd be able to know that you appreciate her as just a good friend.
But be sure to let her know that by writing something special into the card like. "You're such a good friend to me. I appreciate you being there for me"
Or whatever else you want to write.
Good Luck!
2007-01-25 05:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey this is the best opportunity in the world to make it more than friends. Talk to people that know her plan the most original and thoughtful Valentines Day that you can. Show her how much you are into her by caring enough to plan the things that she really likes. You know no cliche teddy bears and chocolate. Take her to her favorite restaurant or club. Give her a gift a gift that means you like her. This will go a long way. By the way roses are not cliche they make every girl feel special especially her favorite color.
2007-01-25 05:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if you're just friends and plan on keeing it that way- you probably don't need to get her anything. If you think she'll get you something, or if you just want to do it as a nice way to say hey I appreciate you, you can get her a non-romantic card (they have Valentine's Day for friends cards at Hallmark), or something like a single yellow/white rose (yellow roses mean friendship, white are purity or something). If you're hittin that booty, then you BETTER get her something and tell her she's just a piece of action for you and nothing more, don't hurt her.
2007-01-25 05:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by Abcdefg 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just mention it to him, be like "oh, im really sorry I was busy and couldn't come see you today, if you want maybe I can come see you tommorow instead or something." It should be fine. You've only been dating 5 days, there shouldn't be a big deal about that already.
2016-05-23 22:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by Diana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not?If you want to give her a small gift, go for it. Just be sure to tell her that it is a friendly gift, that you like the way things are at the present moment, and that you value her friendship. I wouldn't go too over the top, maybe just a card will do.
2007-01-25 05:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lady K 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't get her anything, you are in for a dilemma. Girls freak out about valentine's day no matter what. Just get her something small to save yourself a lot of grief.
2007-01-25 05:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would definately just get her a card. It's not over the top, just a friendly gesture.
2007-01-25 05:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her a valentine's card. By giving her a card doens't mean that you are both together.
2007-01-25 05:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a card would be acceptable. No chocolates.
2007-01-25 05:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by TheSignCreator 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get her a teddy bear. girls always love that. if she does something, take it because she will get mad. ex: if she kisses you, kiss her back. she will run away, throw the teddy at you, and never speak to you again. just get her a teddy and act sweet.
2007-01-25 05:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by galaxyhunter101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋