I sit next to this really cute guy in my 5th period class, and he usually talks to me. but...as a friend(I think). Well anyways...I am like really in LOVE with him....what should I do??
2007-01-25 04:57:26 · 23 answers · asked by Bell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you think he is funny or something like that. Show him that you are interested but over don't exaggerate.
2007-01-25 05:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the daily basics of making sure your teeth are clean and you wear your deodorant, hair is washed and clean clothes and a hint of gloss on your lips and comb your hair really nice. If you have a pimple don't worry it looks cute.
S M I L E a big smile with him and invite him to the library or something, tell him you need help with some "personal research" and then research something you can learn about together like seals, birds, fishes, something you want to learn about like maybe volcanoes, rivers, the nile, egypt e.t.c have fun with it..
This would give you two a chance to work together and you will know where he is coming from and after spending that time with him you will know how you feel some more...if nothing is happening don't get impatient just take it slow being friends first with someone you really like can be a more meaningful and rewarding experience than just jumping into things.
It lasts longer too. Good luck wish you the best luv!
2007-01-25 13:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't use the word love in any situation with him right now. You don't love him, you really like him and if you say that you love him you'll just scare him away. You need to ask little questions that help give you a better idea about how he feels for you. Pay close attention to how he acts around you when you're in public and when you're alone. See how he hugs you or if he notices you in the halls more than a "friend" would. The little things that people don't try to hide usually show the feelings they won't talk about.
2007-01-25 13:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Diagonal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing actual love is when you know a person well enough to know their faults and to still want to spend your life together. It is wanting the best for that person and their wellbeing. You are in the beginning stages of what could end up with dating. Realize that appearance and the way a guy treats you or gives you attention is not necessarily love but should start off as freindship then slowly take it from there getting to know each others like and dislikes, enjoying being friends first before you ever go to the next step.
2007-01-25 13:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by c2god2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter what age you are it doesnt mean to say you cant be in love with someone so dont listen to those comments on here about that. my advice is just flirt with him a bit and see if he responds maybe try a hypothetical situation on him by saying that u got a girl- friend that really likes a guy and doesnt know if they feel the same and ask him how he would be able to tell so that you can 'pass it on to her'. or u could ask him if he finds u attractive and act like its just a friend question and means nothin and if he says hes never looked at u in that way u have ur ansa if he says somethin else then u maybe in with a chance.. also you can get him drunk and then ask what he would think of it then you can just blame it on the drink if it dont go your way. good luck
2007-01-25 13:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by sparkly little mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG if you really like this guy then ask him if he wants to hang out this weekend as friends. Just build you relationship. When you think the time is right tell him how you feel and dont be scared just trust your heart and if you think he likes you just kinda make a move because maybe he's a little scared to make a move because he might think you're just friends and he really isn't sure. Just get to know him first then try to ask him out it will be a lot easier once you get to know him.
2007-01-25 13:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Min 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could drop him a hint that you like him and from there thru his response, you can make your next move. How? Well, by casual way, tell him he's really cute. Then let him digest it. He might act weird afterwards or shy or might drop a hint that helikes you too.
2007-01-25 13:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by mareko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him honestly about your feelings probably in a nice surrounding (beach backdrop or creekside dinner) I am sure he'll be nice, but dont get too ahead of yerself.. all the best gurl
2007-01-25 13:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a cute little note but don't put your name on it. in the note tell him that you like hime and aske him to write back but ask him if he likes any girl in that same class. on the note tell him (if he wants to write back) to put the note somewhere where you will find it and only you and maybe one of your close friends know where it will be. but when you go to get it make shure that no one is around because you don't want him to know that you like him untill you find out if he likes you first. that is how i started to date my now husband of four months.
2007-01-25 13:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm...talk to him? Take your chances and ask him how he feels. If he likes you, take it to the next level. If he doesn't, move on. I asked my best friend how he felt about me and we've been together since. Sometimes girls have to take the initiative.
2007-01-25 13:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋