sweetie, my daughter is 16 and started cutting herself I saw it right away, she says she doesn't know why but her pain in her heart she shows it by cutting, PLEASE STOP , its not healthy I am sure your a beautiful young lady just like my daughter, you don't have to hurt yourself , these scars will always be there to haunt you , please try not to , and I am sure your mom will be understanding if you just talk to her and ask for her help
GOD BLESS
2007-01-25 04:48:27
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answered by Anonymous
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first of all, get help as SOON as you can, this can be very hard, because it takes alot of courage to face the ones you love, or anybody for that matter, with something like this. believe me, i knw. i started cutting a few months ago, and i never even told my parents. were not close at all, but i did want to ask them if i could see a therapist, it took me months to work up the courage - and i did it - believe me it wasnt pleasent, but i am so happy that i did it.
listen, the more that issues lie unresolved, they just get worse, so PLEASE, talk to your mom, or someone else you trust. if you dont have anyone you can go to, you can call a hotline for help.
for now, try your hardest not to cut, its like a drug. no, it IS a drug. talk to friends if your not felling cool, get rid of all the sharp stuff in your room, try your hardest - for your own sake. because there are other ways that you can feel better, you may not now or see them now, and while this may make you feel better for the time being, everytime you cut prelongs your recovery. ive been able to stop, but i have a 2 friends who cannot, and while they dont want to , they are addicted to it. thankfully i waz able to break the habit before it got out of hand. its not all about the cutting though, its about whats causing it, all the underlying issues, and those are the ones that you really need to address. seeing a therapists and having alot of support can help you with that.
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2007-01-25 13:11:37
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answered by Random 1
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Girl, you need to tell you mother becuz u have some problems and u need to see a doctor and go to therapy. Not trying to put pressure on but everybody has problems and it's not worth destroying your body
2007-01-25 12:55:56
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answered by toodie 1
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Honey, you need to talk to your mom. If you can't, tell a friend or a school counsellor. You need someone who can be with you to get you the help you need.
Good luck.
2007-01-25 12:47:04
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answered by Tigger 7
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