i have a crush on this girl. actually shes a friend of mine, not a bestfriend or something, not even a close friend. what do you think should i do to make her feel that i love her. just to make her feel it, much better if she knows it. Im not sure, but im beggining to think that she already knows it. im afraid that i might mess up. Im afraid our friendship might end just because of my stupidity. i also need something romantic, she very much likes those things. thanks
2007-01-25 04:30:32 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hold up! Do you know if she is even attracted to you? If not you must stop right there before doing anything too over-the-top, or you will just come off as a creep and lose her altogether.
Be yourself and see if she falls for that.... if not, do you really want to change who you are for her, you will only be miserable in the end....
Some smaller steps to take would be to ask her for a stroll in the park or something.... romantic, yet you could pull it off and still just look like a friend.
2007-01-25 04:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really like this girl then go for it. Yes there is a risk that you will ruin a good friendship, but if you feel this way about her then you need to be willing to deal with that. As far as the romance idea you might either cook her a nice romantic dinner at your place with candles, flowers, etc. and tell her then.
2007-01-25 04:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by mlj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, hold up Casanova, first before you throw love into this potentially beautiful love equation, stop, and get to know her, if you have then make a bf/gf move. Be sweet, I love it when guys are sweet, and compliment her, help her an any sweet way possible. Then ask her romantically, if she'll go out with you, just don't break her heart like I got mine broken. Always be there for her. Good luck, you seem caring.
2007-01-25 04:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her some flowers, in secret, with a little note in the card. On the note, write a little clue that might make her think it's you, but not totally give it away.
Wait and see if she asks if you sent them, or tells you someone sent them. I bet when she figures it out, you will be able to tell pretty quickly if she likes you that way too -- without having to right out ask her.
Good luck! :)
2007-02-01 16:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first just try to relax... Girls usually like guys who treat them like a lady. You can maybe start by giving her some flowers and a box of chocalate. A candle light dinner would be romantic.Um a massage would be relaxing with some nice music and talking so you two can get to know each other more. Hopefully I gave you a push!!! :]
2007-01-25 04:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by prettyting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... okay well if you want to do something to sweep her off her feet you could try buying her a rose and writing her a romantic note telling her how pretty she is, how much you like (not love) her, but be honest, explain that you don't want to ruin your friendship by making things awkward, and that you'd like to maybe take her out on a date to see if you had any chemistry together. good luck man!
2007-01-25 04:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lady K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX! Dont' get all nervous, it's just a girl bro it's not like you have a crush on angelina jolie and she just asked you to dinner. Biggest thing with women is be confident not scared. Something about you being scared makes them think you're not man enough to be their man. Again RELAX!
2007-01-25 04:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by jhammer2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does stress so much about it because you may portray yourself as a nerves wreck, breath a little before you make the first step
~Girls loves a guy with confidence so try to have a little self esteem before approaching the gurl you wish to have
~Make sure you look nice around her and show her that you can take care of yourself
~Make sur and make conversation with her because you must show her that you are someone that she can talk to for hours
~ and last but not least show her that you are capabloe of haveing fun!
~*what gurl will want a boring man???*~
~*Michi*~
2007-01-25 04:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out to an outing with your friends. My friends and I usually go to this rec center or sports park. Or grab some friends and this girl and go to the movies with her. Actually I prefer the sports park. After going out first, WITH FRIENDS, ask her out a second time to go to like, the movies, and this time go just with her or maybe with more friends. Be a friend to her, but don't directly ask her out. Thats what I would like a guy to do.
2007-01-25 04:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like u don't know her very much and if that's the case get to know her. Spend time with her like take her shopping or whatever she likes to do. Wait about two to three months before you tell her.
2007-02-02 02:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by bluesunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋