I have a friend that i like and we haven't been talking very often what are the best ways to make him talk to me again. and after he does i like him alott but i'm not sure if i should ask him out because i'm not sure if it will ruin our friendship 4 ever PS:i have never been asked out before and have never asked ne1 out before!!!!
2007-01-25 04:25:45 · 19 answers · asked by Haley K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two options....
1) Tellin him face to face if you are comfortable.
2) Send him some sort of email or myspace message or something like that.
2007-01-25 04:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by lalakers_8@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to a mans heart is threw his ego. You need to be honest with him, but be careful, don't end up being the aggressor.
he will have allot more respect if he has to earn your love and affection. Many a woman is hurt by giving a man something he did not earn.
And remember, males do not think like females. all straight men are attracted to there female friends. And don't worry about you friendship, if you like him like this, you don't want to see him date another girl anyways!
Again stroke his ego, tell him when he looks good...here is a great way to tell if he really likes you. Tell him he really looks good in a certain shirt, if he wears it a bit more than he should, you know you have him right where you want him.
remember, ego ego ego...loads of compliments!
2007-01-25 12:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by gibson_slayer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should visit him and talk for awhile. Work your way up to asking him to go out with you. There is no way to avoid ruining your friendship with him if you do date him, some guys will stay friends, others will not. Know this before you start.
2007-01-25 12:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him notice that you want him NOT as a friend, but as a lover. Easy as that. You can't have it both ways, him being a friend that your conversation revolves around you or him talking about mr. or mrs. right. Ask and you will find out quickly whether you will be JUST friends or actually have some fun getting to know each other fully.
I hope that works.
2007-01-25 12:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by JarheadPinoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are always worried about ruining a friendship. That's a load of crap. You can always find new friends. Friends are a dime a dozen. How many chances are you going to get with someone who may be the love of your life?
2007-01-25 12:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ease into it. start off with doing subtle things, like... lightly touch his arm or shoulder when you're talking to him... or try to lock eyes with him from across the room. Be a little "snuggly" when you're around him. Give him a hard time about stuff (in a joking way.) and eventually, just kiss him. Just make sure its "the right moment" to lay one on him.
Good luck kiddo
2007-01-25 12:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by SlickNick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your not gonna tell him in person so buy him a card and write what you feel (write something sweet and pick out a nice card or write a sweet letter)
2007-01-25 12:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its time to start
mostly the best people just wait till somebody asks them, then they only say yes like half the time I think.
maybe ask him to kneil down in front of you and beg or something
2007-01-25 12:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, be open and honest otherwise how will he know that you are interested and if you play head games this could potentially lead to disaster.
2007-01-25 16:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by darlin0043 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know or firt alot and he'll get the point! If he doesn't then just write it in a note then if you get rejected it won't hurt as much!
2007-01-25 12:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by deadandstillivn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋