my bf told me that he loved me so much and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. he then said that he would never leave me or break up with me. i am wondering what it really means....and if its true.
2007-01-25 04:20:30 · 18 answers · asked by Emo dark KITTY! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is saying that so he can get into your pants if he hasn't already. If he has maybe you found you a good man. Or maybe he just wants something from you.
2007-01-25 05:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means not only will he leave you or break up with you, he will do it such a spectacular way as to leave you completely brokenhearted and disillusioned about men in general. Watch him and be ready to have him hand you your walking papers after you find out your Father has cancer, or your Mom died or some other equally important moment in your life that requires your full attention, he will show his butt at the most devastating moment he can. Or......maybe....just maybe.....no matter what you do, he will stalk you and watch you like a hawk. He'll keep you under surveliance than ask questions about where you were and what you did, and if you leave any detail out, it will be evidence of you cheating.,.....or maybe.....he is young and thinks you are the one, like the last 5 gf's. In any case, take what he says, not with a grain of salt, but a pound of it. Nothing is gauranteed in life my dear, you take your chances. The best way to insure you have picked well, is to know that your man has some character, his word is really his bond and that he keeps his word and that he won't give it unless he means it. If your man lives to please you and make you happy, along with himself, if your man finds time to make you number one in his life and you do the same for him, that he is honest, trustworthy and dependable, then you have a better chance of having a successful life together., A life built on mistrust, unhappiness, and using one another, is not likely to lead to a long term happy marriage. Just a thought, and hope this helps you. Good luck!
2007-01-25 04:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how long you two have been together. If it's only been a month, I wouldn't take it so literally. Some guys say those things because they get caught up in the moment and after being single for a while, they're happy to have someone and would say anything to keep them around. On the other hand, if you have been with each other for a while, have established trust within your relationship, and love one another, then I wouldn't completely disregard it.
Overall, I think what he was really trying to say though is that if things keep going the way they have been, he can't see any reason to leave you. That's my take...
2007-01-25 04:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by HotC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a good guy he'll mean it unless you all together stop caring then he'll be constantly kicking himself for saying it. Often times that's entirely why a guy will never say I love you till a woman does because in doing so he's committing himself. Actually in quite a similar situation and let me tell you I'd absolutely love to break up right now because she won't even talk to me... about anything serious at all. As I said those words however I'm ******.
2013-10-20 20:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be any thing for us. What matters is what it really means for your guy! Then you have to wait and see its meaning optimistically. Because, after all, your guy could be or could changing to be among the faithful persons of our world. Besides, you are the one who have to significantly manage him towards seeing what you want to see from him. You can make him lucky of keeping most of his promises for you. Don’t wonder around, use your time and capabilities. You can do it in life!
2007-01-25 04:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by hithere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, It's sounds like you need to be careful like most of the answers your receiving. He may turn out to be posseive and abusive if your feelings are not the same as his . You need to watch your self and his behavior with you . Good luck !
2007-01-25 04:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by chrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and how long have you been dating him? It means's watch how i treat you in good times and bad! See if i support you when you really need me to! then only you can determine if he's telling the truth.
2007-01-25 04:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by deezbrats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yeah right!! honey step back and take a look at this one! my boyfriend told me the same thing over and over. i believed it until he brought another girl with him to my party and had her at his house that same night! granted, we are back together because nothing happened but the point is, just because he said that doesn't mean its true. just because you love him doesn't mean you have to believe him. he just told you what sounded good and what you wanted to hear.
2007-01-25 04:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he will leave you and brake up with you. But i guess if he leaves you then breaking up isn't a issue.
2007-01-25 04:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he'll leave you or break up with you at some point
Ain't no guarentees in life
2007-01-25 04:25:21 · answer #10 · answered by crackerjack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋