Why do girls just blow me off after i ask them out?

Question

seriously? im really romantic? really good looking?
not a whore at all?
quiet now, but in hs i was real good, and just the "cool" kid. so? wtf?

or do you think god's trying to give me a sign as to wait, and when i do, i go into jackin the box a certain day and that certain day im single so i meet someone new? however if i had a girl in the future i went to jack in the box? i would meet her?

or do you think its just what im doing wrong?
seriously wtf?
its been 6 mos since my 2 year ex broke up with me, she had sex with 3 guys in 2-3 mos. after we promiced eachother we wouldnt til were married... just.

i need ot move on.
i need a girl to help me.
can't start a long lasting relationship like that "was" by waiting...

not to sound cocky, im just not a geek oar someone that has no experiance is all.

Answer 1

Sean,
I had a thought.
In the movie "The Lake House" there's a time warp and the guy is living in 1994 but the girl he writes to lives in 1996. He goes to where she was 2 years ago in 1994 and meets her before she ever knew who he was. He knows and loves her but at the time she doesn't know it. So there at the party he talks to her and you can feel how sincere his feelings are. My point is this: She could feel comfortable with him because he had a sincere interest in her. well it worked out nicely because she got to kiss a stranger who was sincerely nice to her and he got to kiss his dream girl from the future. Know who you are. Know what you like. Know Jesus. Invest time in Knowing Jesus. Then smile at his gift to mankind. I'm just a kid but happily married since 1991.