guys and girls answer this please!!!!!!?

Question

do you people think that a relationship where 2 people love each other and want to spend the rest of ther lives with each other that it should only be one sided and by one sided i mean that me the boyfreind shows all the affection and my girl freind dosent barelly show me any and it bugs me now i know she loves me but why cant she just show it more weve gone days without hugginh or anything because i always do that stuff and i want her to please people help me please

Answer 1

Sounds to me like it's either one of two things:
1. She's one of those people who are not naturally demonstrative, and doesn't show a lot of affection....
2. She doesn't really love you as much as you seem to love her.

Hope it works out for the best.
Good luck!

Answer 2

Well the question is "Was she ever affectionate to begin with?" If she was and stopped then you might want to look more closely to your girlfriend. There is either something going on with her or she might be sharing your affection with someone else. If she was never affectionate to begin with then you should know that you cant change a person. It is up to her to make that decision whether or not she is into it. And sometimes there are actually people who arent into the whole affectionate deal but that doesnt mean she donest love you. Hope this helped out some.

Answer 3

It's possible she doesn't "know" how to show affection. What was her childhood like; did her parents show her and each other any affection? If there was little or no affection that could explain why she can't show you. Of course I don't know this to be the case in her situation but if it is just try (I know, it's hard) to be patient with her and continue to show your love for her. Another thought I have is: when you are showing her affection does it always lead to sex? If so, it could be that sometimes she just wants to cuddle but because she knows it will lead to sex she withholds the affection. I'm not saying she doesn't want sex, but that sometimes she just wants to hold and to be held. Again, I don't know if this applies to her. If not, I'm sorry I can't be of more help to you.

Answer 4

There is not one punctuation mark in that huge long string of words. Oy. You sound QUITE desperate to me, and that is ALWAYS a turn-off for girls. I'd forget her, work on yourself, maybe get some hobbies or something, feel good about yourself and grow up a little. You sound really young and WAY WAY WAY too stressed out.

Answer 5

Absolutely not, the relationship should be two sided as in, each party contributes. If she feels exempt of such duties then you might need to reevaluate things. The best things to do in life are seldom the easiest.

Answer 6

Sounds like a forced relationship. You're settling. She's not everything you want. If it's important enough, you'll understand that out of millions of girls in the world, there is more than one that will fill your every need.

Answer 7

becuase we girls fear if will get in, adn will show u how much we love u, u ll just live us becuase u ll feel like great i got her, who is next on my list. So we are just scared to show affection. But some girls are just like that period. How long have u went out? may be she is still not too comfortable with things like that.

Answer 8

Some people dont like alot of affection,try talking to her and find out that could be the problem

Answer 9

That usually doesn't happen until year five of marriage, now at least you know what you have to look forward to. Think long and hard about a loveless marriage

Answer 10

You cannot 'change" someone into being what you want...if you are a "hugger" and she's not, you either learn to accept it, or move on. If someone truly loves you, they should have no problem showing it...sounds to me like maybe you should move on.....