I had been seeing this guy, for three months and he was not that nice to me, he called every other day and asked me out sometimes but he talked to hid friends about me and he told my cousind he really liked me and stuff, suddenly he stopped calling me and after a month he called me so I didn´t answer the call. Now he´s dating someone else, a girl I know and I´m so sad and mad, because I sent him an email just to see how he was doing and he didn´t even answer it back and this girl´s parents are best friends with his parents and he´s gonna take her to his birthday and he asks her out a lot contrary to how he was with me. Now why could this be? I didn´t deserve to be left hanging like that, what can I do to stop thinking about it? It´s driving me crazy ? Please help!
2007-01-25 03:46:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Realize that he's not right for you and you're lucky to have found out early in the relationship.
But then, you were torqued off at him, so you didn't answer his phone call. You're playing games with him, too. Shame on you. (You didn't answer his phone call on purpose, but you're upset that he didn't answer your email? Aren't you being hypocritical?)
Let the other girl have him. If he doesn't love you enough to be stay with you, then why would you want him anyway?
In the future, be honest with your boyfriends. Don't play games like not answering the phone.
And why do people date? Isn't the classic answer "to get to know them"? So why are you upset that it didn't work out? As you got to know each other, you realized yo weren't right for each other. That's not a bad thing, and it's way better to find out before the wedding than after.
It is unrealistic to expect him to like you to the degree you like him, and for the same length of time. His affection wore off and he found someone else. Let him go. Don't hold it against either him or her. Wish them well. The fact he left you proves you are better off with out him, without saying anything bad about him--perhaps you two were simply incompatible.
This attitude will help you put this behind you and truly have peace about it. It will also help you in future relationships.
And yes, he should have had the decency to tell you when it was over.
I didn't marry until I was 30, but I got a keeper.
2007-01-25 03:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Maryfrances 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just read back over your answer, that should be enough for you to know what to do all by yourself. Do you really need a man to make you feel worthy? I am not asking this to be mean. I used to think I needed a guy, I wanted one so bad, because I wanted the love and attention. I would settle for the crappiest guys. Don't do that. Obviously he isn't worth the toilet paper he wipes his a** with. So just move on, if you see him, just politely nod and go on your way. Be proud ot be single and independent. (did I spell that right) Look for the perfect guy, NEVER EVER settle for a loser, such as the guy you just described.
2007-01-25 03:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be mean here but, GET OVER HIM! It seems pretty obviouse that he does not have the intrest in hij that you have in him. He ios dateing another girl and treating her a lot better than he treated you, that is a HUGE red flag right there. He should have treated you that well if not better. Most guys that like a girl a lot treat her extra speciel in the begingin of a relashinship and if he is not at least being decent with the way he treats you then you need to9 get over him and find someone that deserves you and treats you well.
2007-01-25 03:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Stephany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While you may not deserve to be left "hanging like that", you have been. Let it go. If you keep trying to contact him, show up places where he'll be, email, etc. you only end up LOOKING AS DESPERATE AS YOU FEEL. And nothing is more unattractive than a desperate woman or man. No one wants to be with someone who is desperate. Get yourself together, let go of him and focus on yourself and other people. Move on. You'll feel much better about yourself if you do.
2007-01-25 03:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new life, forget about him find another guy, I never understood why women keep wanting the guy that treats them like trash.
2007-01-25 03:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt derserve you, be glad you didnt stay with him and end up marryin him and have kids and he left you for the same gurll....get over it siply because he isnt worth it
2007-01-25 03:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wast of your time--lots of fish in the sea--he isn't worth your worry--so let it go--When things don't click they are not meant to be--
2007-01-25 03:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is wrong! Hello, he is not "your guy" anymore. He is done with you. MOVE ON!
2007-01-25 03:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him like yesterdays trash.
2007-01-25 03:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by the one, the only ERMELINDA!!!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him then he'll like you if he dosnet then give him the silent treatment
2007-01-25 03:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by emmamcdw11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋