I think he may like me but it's happened before and it ruined my whole relationship the last time......should I give it another try and ask this new guy out?
2007-01-25 03:38:06 · 25 answers · asked by cortez_cheyenne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not... i just did one of the best things of my life last night i asked my man of 5 years to marry me... i was scared **** less that he would say no ... and if he did our relationship would have been ruined just take the chance! you never know... and hey if he says no then hey what ever it just wasn't meant to be. ;) good luck
2007-01-25 03:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by Day Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you've asked him out before and it ruined your relationship?
if so maybe you could get someone he knows to do some investigation, to see if he likes you or would be up for trying to go on date.
but, most of all go with your heart, if the feeling is uncontrollable, you should probably go for it! just make sure not to come on to strong or seem like an annoying girl. (not saying that you are)
don't seem desperate, though!!!
good luck
2007-01-25 11:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never ask him or anyone else out. You need to spend the rest of your days with 100 cats and lots of nieces and nephews and no children of your own. You cannot ever ask anyone out! You might actually be successful and you dont need that! Never ask anyone out again, you might get your feelings hurt or....or maybe you'll find the man of your dreams.
2007-01-25 11:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking him out and just having a casual chat the first time will not harm anything
2007-01-25 11:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by dianadaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead. You have a 50-50 chance of getting the answer you want.
2007-01-25 11:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep feeling him out and basically give him the signals that you are interested in him. If he gets the signs and is interested he’ll ask you out, leaving the pressure off you.
2007-01-25 11:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you know it won't mess things up. But give it a little more time and only ask him out if you know that he likes you.
2007-01-25 11:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by gayle325 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somebody need to make the first move. Ask him...you don't loose anything. But be careful...i'm sure there's still zillions things that you need to know about him. but hey, enjoy the feelings of being in love again...
2007-01-25 11:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by freegowalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think it will work out, go ahead! =D But if you barely know him, and he doesn't pay alot of attention to him, I would try to make an effort to get to know him better. You never know, he could return your love!
2007-01-25 11:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Arya T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to find out if he really does like you first before you ask him but if you know he does, then go for it. :-)
2007-01-25 11:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by love_n_hate84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋