What do you guys think about moving in with your BF or GF? My boyfriend asked me to move in with him. I have 2 boys that like him very much and he has two kids also that love me??!!! - Your thoughts please?!!
2007-01-25 03:37:36 · 12 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Sassy it sounds to me like you may have found some true happiness in your life and a man that will respect you and want to live till the end of time with you. Very important fact also is that both sets of kids love each others partners, and hopefully they will get along as siblings also. My fiance has 3 kids, two that live independent and one at home and I have 3 also but all are grown and on their own. These kids, like yours, all are happy for us both and wish us only happiness and good cheer in our relationship. Best of luck to you and I wish you much happiness.
2007-01-25 03:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well there is nothing wrong with liking him, what sort of committment does he want, what has he offered you, what are his rules of the house and kids, does his kids know yours, how will bills be paid? Just to through so things out there.
Here's the biggest one. LET HIM MOVE IN WITH YOU. That way if it does not work you and your kids will not have to be looking for shelter. Always keep and have the upper hand and a step ahead in case and need be.
2007-01-25 03:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, he has the money, so it would be his abode. he isn't obligated to place your call on it, and if he would not prefer to dont take offense to it. i might propose renting an apt jointly for a 300 and sixty 5 days first. shifting in and living with somebody is a extensive adjustment, it is not important how long you have been relationship. paying for a house is a extensive deal, so dont leap into it, particularly in case you haven;t heavily reported marriage, it rather is in basic terms stupid.
2016-09-27 23:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have any doubts don't do it yet, but talk to your man big time about it. it is not just you you have to think about it is the kids involved too. maybe talk to your boys too if they are old enough to see how they would feel, consider everything before you commit to make sure you and the kids will be doing the best thing for you all.
good luck and be happy
2007-01-25 03:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by happy girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Awwwwww the modern Brady Bunch. Well if both of your families get along, and you two are serious about each other go for it and start a new family.
2007-01-25 03:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by girlieGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you guys think you are ready for the "family" thing then go for it. i mean you apparently can stand on your own if something goes wrong... which i hope it doesn't. but i say go for it. of course have a talk with all of the kids to make sure they are fine with it.
2007-01-25 03:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by Back*To*Me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im somewhat in your situation but i dont have kids he has two of his own and believe me it becomes a problem if you move in with his kids and yours. im not telling you not to do it but really think about it. because everything changed for me when i moved in with him. b4 we would go out on weekends etc but now on weekends i get his kids :).. i mean its all on you but really think about it b4 doing it because you wouldnt want to ruin a beautiful relationship.
2007-01-25 03:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by sekzieannie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For those who co-habitate prior to marriage have a 75% more likely chance of splitting up than those who don't.
And if your not interested in marriage I ask you, Why are you interested in moving in?
2007-01-25 03:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are ready to be in a committed live-in relationship than go for it. Please talk with your kids first because your kids like him they might not living with him. GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES.
2007-01-25 03:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by tank1show 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly I think it is a fantastic idea. Now you will see how all of you get along together and see where the relationship progresses to.
2007-01-25 03:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋