We just started living in the same city and we've been together a year and a half. He seemed to like intimacy as much as I did. Last week, he started to seem less interested. His reason was that he was tired, but he's been tired before and this wasn't a problem. Is he really tired or is he uninterested?
2007-01-25 03:06:01 · 13 answers · asked by onetime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion he is not uninterested at all. He is merely becoming far more comfortable in this relationship and this often happens. When relationships first begin to share with each other sexually it is a very time. But after a while the honeymoon stage settles down a bit and then a lot of folks make love when the mood hits then and not as often as at first. Do not worry as this is a very natural occurrence.
2007-01-25 03:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too soon to tell unless it becomes a pattern. It could be that now you live in the same city, the "forbidden fruit" factor is not there and he now thinks that he can be with you anytime and will not put forth the extra effort even though he is tired (like he did in the past) because he can see you tomorrow and wants to be well rested for the event.
If it is a continuing trend over a few week, then it is a red flag that the relationship is in danger and you need to sit him down and have a talk with him about it.
2007-01-25 11:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he just wants it somewhere else with someone else, wants it from another man, or just has experienced a drastic case of male menopause. Statistically I'd say the first case is usually true. The good news is that there are creepy guys out there answering questions so finding another boyfriend shouldn't be that difficult....Get Some!
2007-01-25 11:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by tim s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest I think he maybe just tired of the same hole men are like that greedy and just straight out selfish at times and as far as him being tired you got it tired of the same hole like i said another thing he can be tired from the other hole he's been dippin' in girl keep your eyes open for more signs cuz it seems as if he is already sending htem out to you. If so move on it may be hard but no woman deserves a man who cheats on them especially when your giving your all to and tring to please him.
2007-01-25 11:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by MsDeelover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was really tired or theres something stressing him try to reconnect do things together that yall did in the beginning of the relationship if he doesnt come around meet you half way and try to fix the problem then leave him
2007-01-25 11:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because before he was interested in getting in your pants and for a while he enjoyed it but it just got old. Try several new positions sometimes the same position gets old. And if all else fails I guess try anal i guarantee that will keep him around your pinky!
2007-01-25 11:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys seem to change when they have you....just cut him off for a while...Have you asked why he is tired? What has he been into lately? Now what is his new interest?
2007-01-25 11:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by lazykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he is tired then he is probably tired. Offer him a nice back rub and don't expect sex let him rest and he will be good as new LOL.
2007-01-25 11:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isn't physically ill or extremely tired, as in 2 hours' sleep a nite, better start worrying, sweetie, that's one of the first signs of us wandering around...
2007-01-25 11:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by MICHAEL G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you What...do the Same to him and See how he likes it! (Be like "No, Im tired when he's Extreemlt Horny") He'll go Crazy!!!!!!!! LOL
2007-01-25 11:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by kittysweetie19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋