i need some help with this relationship.....?

Question

my girlfriend is great and i love her as much as i possibly can, but she has a problom about bitching about everything. it doesnt matter what goes on, good or bad, she always complains and bitches about it. what should i do?

Answer 1

just tell her that your really not interested in all that she has to say about other people and look a bit disinterested when she's bitching and complaining.don't lend her a ear. tell her ''lets just talk about us''. or just change the damn topic. she'll get the hint soon and I'm sure she's not gonna be talking to the walls. -all the best dude-

Answer 2

You need to talk to her and make her realized that she's doing this, that you'd like her to be more positive in her everyday life. That other people probably have it worst off then she does.
If you do not raise this issue with her you'll become irritated and you might start feeling uninterested in what she has to say which could become a huge problem in your relationship.
You don't need to tell her to change over night but maybe tell her you'll point out when she's being negative. Good luck and I am sure it'll work out fine.

Answer 3

Tell her to stop being negative, it brings you down. Encourage her to focus on the positive things and if tell her if she is so unhappy with everything then it leads you to believe she won't be happy with you either, therefore you may need to reevaluate your relationship.

Answer 4

talk abt the matter with her and find the solution

Answer 5

you should talk to her about it so she knows whats shes doing and she knows that it bothers you...my hubby is like that and he's been like that forever and we've talked about and he doesn't like it but he realizes it and he tries to change now........