how to befriend the dog next door?

Question

it seems to bark a lot whenever someone appears. and yet it might be fun to play with, or at least pet, but it runs when you get near.

Answer 1

I guess i wouldnt proceed to do anything with out owners permission. You could ask them to introduce the dog to you, cause your neighbors and want to know the dog more. Also his barking is normal cause hes protecting and alerting his home. He might just be fearful of your approach depending on how you are approching. I would have your pockets stuffed with treats, but again after you talk to your neighbor to be sure the dog isnt on a restricted diet or has allergies. Then calmly sit and not stare at him, quietly and calmly call his name and be relaxed. When he comes to you dont immediately reach out for him. Let him come sniff you. Never make full eye contact. This is a sign of aggression and it will make the dogs nervous, aggressive, or shy. Then when hes completely sniffed you out you can give him a treat. Never pet a strange dog directly on the top of the head till he greets you. Always start petting them under the chin or chest. Then when hes comfortable you can graduate to his head and ears. Going at a dog from the top side is a sign of dominance and aggression. Petting under the chin and neck can simulate subbmissive dog nipping behavior and puppy attention to the adult. Do this several times a week and he should be able to trust and like you soon enough. Never force anything on him, never become pushy and until you settle in good standing, never think you have advantage or totaly freedom with him. Too aggressive or bold a move too early could make him not like you forever.

Answer 2

First you need to know a little about Dog Talk. Look at the dog when it barking at someone. Is it wagging it's tail? How is the tail positioned? Many times a waging tail in the air with barking mean; "I want to bite your @ss"! Look along the back of the dog. Is the Hair/Fur "Bristled" (Standing up)? Then it definitely want to bite your @ss. From what you say, the tail probably mid-high and fur bristles down which seems more neutral. The dog probably friendly, but, not sure who to trust. You could have a treat in hand and sit in a lawn chair and allow it to come to you. I not sure if it a good Idea to be too low to the ground. Just sit in a chair and see how the dog react. Talk in a friendly tone. Do not throw the treat at the dog. If, it not come you may try throwing the treat to a right angle from the dog. In time you should gain trust and a friend.
As stated you may want to ask the owner of this, many people not like others messing around with their dog and can become a little "Perturbed".
My neighbor has a German Shepard, he seem friendly as he stand at the fence barking and waging his tail in the air with those bristles up between his front shoulders. He wants to bite my @ss. :-(

Answer 3

We have several dogs and many in our neighborhood. Your best bet might be this... have a treat or two in your pocket. Get into a kneeling position, more to the dog's level - (when you're standing you may look big and threatening.) It's nice if you know the dog's name, but even if you don't, hold the treat out with your extended hand, and talk soothingly to the dog, urging him to come - ask him if he wants a treat (most dog's know the word "treat" or "cookie" - sort of a universal word dogs understand I suppose!)He may not respond the first time or two you attempt this, but he will soon realize you're a pretty cool neighbor and you may have a buddy for life! Good luck!

Answer 4

Always get the owners permission before touching their dog! They will explain the temperment and stuff you need to know before you get biten. Most dogs Do Not like strangers near they're house! Dogs act differently when being walked away from the home also. Don't assume the 'nice dog' next door who let's you pet him when he's out for a walk will act the same in his yard b/c he may bite ya protecting his house.

Answer 5

Congrats on a good heart and approach to what some might see as a barking nuisance! Ask it's owner for the best tips on their dog. Maybe suggest you could take it on a walk or play with it so that it will not bark at you, its neighbor. Oh, and learn its name and call it by name.

Answer 6

Yes, talk to the owners first. Throwing food to the dog for the first few days is a good idea when you have their permission. When you do this, the dog will see you and expect a treat, and will stop barking sooner!

Answer 7

Talk to the owners. My neighbors threw food over the fence for my dogs and I called the cops! so THAT is NOT a good idea. If you want to get to know the dog just knock on the door. Introduce yourself and tell them exactly what you said in your question....

"You're dog barks a lot, I'd like to get to know him better so maybe he won't be so upset when I come around. Mind if I meet him?"

Good Luck

Answer 8

Call his name to get his attention. Then toss him a treat. Do this several times so he gets to know that you are a good thing. Then little by little, hold a treat in your hand and ask him to come. If he doesn't, make him work for it, then toss it again. Keep trying until he gets closer and closer and then he will take it from your hand eventually. Don't pat him until he comes to you with a happy tail wagging.

Animals bark out of fear. You need to show him you're a friend that he can trust. They know the hand of kindness.

Answer 9

MY DOG BARKS LIKE HE WILL EAT YOU ALIVE BUT HE REALLY JUST WANTS TO SEE YOU. ASK THE OWNER ABOUT THE DOG. IF HE OK'S IT AND THE DOG IS FRIENDLY BUT MAY JUST BE A LITTLE SHY, TRY TREATS. DOGS ARE EASILY PERSUADED BY FOOD. AS I MENTIONED ASK THE OWNER FIRST.

Answer 10

f the owners have no objections, then sit quietly and wait for the dog to approach you. Be prepared to defend yourself though as the dog is unknown to you and you to the dog.