Why do some guy "dump" girls after the chase has ended?

Question

after he has "had" her???

if he finds her attractive, why wouldnt he want a relationship?

just curious!!xx lol xxx

Answer 1

Becuase for msot guys life is a game, and what is the most exciting part of the game is to climb those mountines to get ur victory gift. So they work very hard and the moment girls give in theyy are like of **** she is mine i can do anything and she wont go anywhere, so thats why i always say off course u can't make a guy always chase after u since a guy would give up after a while and will go find an easier chick, but never give in completely. For example me and my bf are going out for 8 month now, i never called him first, sounds ridiculous and works, and i would never be the one wat are u doing tonight, am i gonna see u. And he know if he is not going to be the one to call me and ask me, i wont call him, and then he might be too late and i m chilling with other ppl. So never give in completely, always play a little game.

Answer 2

If you don't want guys to dump you after they have had sex with you, then you should build the relationship BEFORE you have sex! If this is a strange concept to you, then maybe you should read something like The Rules by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Shneider.

Basically, men do not prize what is handed to them on a plate. They are driven by sex, and this is not their fault, it is natural! They will do and say anything to get you to have sex with them, and then they think (subconsciously) 'that was easy, now who else is around....' and they dump you! If you make it clear at the start of dating that you don't sleep around, then eventually you will form a relationship with someone who cares about you and is interested in you.

I'm not saying this happens all the time, but just dont make EVERYTHING too easy for a guy. If its easy sex, and you're always available to go out when he wants, and dont have a life outside of him he will get bored very quickly.

Answer 3

There are a lot of guys who only want sex and not a relationship. They will chase until they get the sex then they are on to the next chase. I have known of guys who kept track of how many girls they "had" by putting marks on the bill of their Baseball caps and bragging about who had gotten the most girls. True story. For some guys it becomes a competition to see which one gets the most girls. They are generally very immature and want to make themselves feel like they are macho men.

Answer 4

Too much security? Not enough stimulation in the relationship? Not enough of the little things to keep the relationship alive.

That sort of guy is young and looking for thrills. He's probably into fast cars as well. I could tell you how to keep such a guy but it would work against me

Answer 5

Maturity level is lacking as well as he probably has intimacy issues. He could have grown up with a dad that was the same. He could be hanging out with guys that are the same and probably make bets to see who gets which girl and how long it would take. Girls today give it up too easy and guys see that as a green light to keep doing it over and over again. The guys are not totally to blame. It works both ways.

Answer 6

Unfortunately some men are like that. That's the only reason they date women.
Make them commit before they get you.
Or at least try to see how serious they are by telling them they don't get you until you get a ring. If they don't run, maybe they do want a relationship.
Sorry I can't be of more help, but men like that are hard to judge as they will lie and do almost anything to get a woman.

Answer 7

they dont all want a relationship just a bit of fun and once they caught the prey, what else is there to do but let it go again, thats why a lot of the time even after they will still try it again to see cos its the thrill of the chase

Answer 8

Sorry chicks but this is the reality

That is what it's all about chase and conquest,
Once you succeeded in getting a f-uck, then it's game over and start again.
And after 10.000 years of watching men do this over and over the girls still don't get it.
Either women are eternally dumb or ever hopeful that men will change.
Well we are not gonna change we will keep on chasing you, catching you, fu-cking you and fu-cking off. Leaving you broken hearted and you will keep letting us get away with it.
Maybe you should ask yourself why?

Answer 9

adult males get linked to a girl and picture, oh, i will under no circumstances discover all of us greater desirable than her. those adult males probable won't supply up wish until they hit upon a bigger looking lady that's prepared to communicate to them, or if the girl basically flat out rejects him and tells him it might under no circumstances paintings. i for my section think of the only way for a woman to maintain charm in a guy is that if she is doing the chasing. while a guy chases, he comes off as needy and undesirable.

Answer 10

Because it was never about the girl in the first place...it was about the sex. (If that's what you mean by "had") Relationships aren't based that much on looks...it should go far deeper than that.

This type of guy is especially drawn to the Britney Spears types. I'm not saying that's who you are, I'm just saying there's alot of fellas like that. They just want to use and abuse you and move on.

And girls who fall in the trap of using their sexuality instead of their personality to attract others will draw alot of this type.