2007-01-25 02:56:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, heck no. I've asked out a couple of guys in my time... including my husband! :-)
Just remember the etiquette: If YOU do the asking YOU are responsible for paying for the date. The guy can offer, and it's fine to accept, but you gotta know going in that it's your responsibility. Good luck!
2007-01-25 03:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not exactly wrong to ask a boy out, but it may not be a good thing to do...not socially 'correct' is the better term. After all the 'mullah' about equality between sexes, the rule of the jungle still holds true... The male chases the female, not the other way around.!
The best way is to 'act' or 'play' charming...cute...sexy...coy...or anything that makes a man think of you as feminine as could be.
This may take time, but its worth all the waiting!
2007-01-25 03:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Marla82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H3LL NO! Sorry for coming off so strong, but I wish more girls would ask guys out. Rejection sucks and it's hard to be original and convince a new woman you're actually int rested in meeting her and getting in her pants actually wasn't the first thing we guys thought about. Believe it or not girls, sometimes it happens that way.
2007-01-25 03:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is not cosider wrong to ask a guy out because ive done that before though you might want to try and figure out if he likes you as well like if you intersest him. You know what i mean rite well yeah thats what i think. Go for it gurl if your sure he is the one you want let noone stop you. just dont feel bad if rejected because sooner or later he will find out he made the worng choice in rejecting you.
2007-01-25 03:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!
Some guys (like myself) have a tough time asking girls out. It's a low self esteem I think but we don't like being turned down. It really crushes our feelings and puts yet another damper on us for the next time we try to ask a girl out.
If you see a guy you like then go ask him out even if it's just to go have coffee or something little like that. It will give him the hint that you like him and all that bull will be over so he can act on getting you to go out with him.
2007-01-25 03:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Take administration, woman. pass after the guy you like if he would not have the experience or self belief to pass when you. maximum adult males think of that girls that have lots of self belief are sexy. in case you ask him out, then you definately'll in basic terms be exhibiting him which you're no longer afraid to pass after and get what you like! pass forward and do it, there is not any longer something incorrect with it in any respect!!
2016-09-27 23:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is THE thing to do, go and do it ....
Guy will always be surprised and will appreciate that, because in general this is supposed to work in the "other way".
If you like the guy, so ask him, because if he is shy he won't ask you and maybe you ll miss an interesting one.
2007-01-25 03:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by WonderingMind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. But usually a guy shows true interest if he IS the one to ask out.
2007-01-25 03:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom thinks it's wrong, but i suppose that's just how she was brought up. times have changed..i'd say it's not wrong at all!
i myself have never asked anyone out, all my men in the past asked me out. one of my ex's has never asked a girl out in his life, i was the first. he was always being the one asked. i guess it really just depends on the person!
2007-01-25 03:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by I am Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok if the guy is shy but if he is outgoing then he is more likely to ask you out first if he is interested.
2007-01-25 03:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by shadowsredangel6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋