whats going on???

Question

i really like this guy. we meet up whenever we are out in town on the same nite. we have kissed.

after we have met up i dont hear from him for a while and he ignores my texts-why???

i then move on and forget him and he comes back texting like normal!!

whats going on???
hes single and nearly 29.

hes does want to go further than kissing!

Answer 1

My impression is that he is seeing other women and you are his backup girl. Best thing you can do is back off and see what happens over the course of the next few months. If he really likes you, he'll stop playing games and let you know. Don't just take his word for it. Observe his actions, which will ultimately speak louder.

Answer 2

may be hes just busy but if hes ignoring your text messages he just likes to get ur attention alot perhaps.some guys do that often when there not really intrested or when ther into someone else or may be a few more girls like you.

i personally think hes having you on!..its like a game hes playing when he gets bored of the other girls or when hes not talking to them he talks to you.then doesnt talk to them for a while and talks to the others...in most cases its like that...but i think you should move on and forget him and see..if he really cares hel come running and begging you.but if hes not then you just keep ignoring him and move on find someone who will reply right away to your messages and leav everything else for you and not ignore you...i guess hes not intrested and is just taking advantage of you..anyways thats what i think...but you shouldnt go on what im saying coz what im saying may be wrong...coz i dont know that guy and i dont know you so i cant judge whats going on properly...im no one to judge your life just do as you wish and how you feel and have a gr8 time....i hope you find someone you loves you and cares for you...best of luck take care.hope it works out for you.

Answer 3

He's just playing games and probably doesn't know what he wants. I'd ignore him unless he asked me out a 'real date'. You make it too easy for him when you are willing to just hook up whenever you run into him. He may be one of those guys that has no respect for women in general. Did he explain why he hasn't been in touch? Chances are good that he's recently been dumped and needs you to feed his ego.

Answer 4

I'd almost bet he was seeing a girl the first time you met then he went back to her until they broke up and now he's wanting you to take her place especially with the "more than kissing" part.

Answer 5

Maybe he was exploring other possibilities (women) and then decided that you were the one. I would have a talk with him about his intentions and let him know what mine were. If it goes further than kissing and then he ignores your texts how will you feel?

Answer 6

Sounds like a bit of a player to me. Next time he text you ignore him, give him a taste of his own medicine. Find a nice lad who treats you with the respect you deserve.

Answer 7

i really don't think you should hook up with this guy if hes doing this hes probably to busy for u or has 2 many girlfriends 2 keep up with plus there is allot of guys out there that would probably appreciate u

Answer 8

maybe he is shy around women i get like that alot. he obversly likes you text him back and say a date an time that way he will feel wanted buy someone nice like you. good luck girl hope it goes well

Answer 9

That's called a one-night-stand.

Answer 10

hes using you!