i am seeing this guy and ive found out a couple of times by his brother that hes seeing other girls too....should i trust his brother or him? should i try to get evidence of it or not?
2007-01-25 02:14:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the best answer for this one, it comes from the very insightful words of Bruce Lee. Please read it carefully, and take it for what you believe he is trying to get across...
" Learn to walk on.- Why add the tension of emotion/thought to a situation which is illusion, to the extent that it is real, of a passing moment (in any event, the result of previous causes)? Do what seems wise to be done, forget it, and walk on. Walk on and see a new view. Walk on and see the birds fly. Walk on and leave behind all things that would dam up the inlet, or clog the outlet, of experience."
Very wise words to me, take what you would like from it, and "do what seems wise to be done."
2007-01-25 02:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by djkoolaide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 13:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brothers tend to be jealous of their siblings. I wouldn't put too much faith in the brother but then it wouldn't be a good thing to take your eyes off your boyfriend either. You might want to listen to the brother and assess if he tells the truth and then act on it.
2007-01-25 02:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust the brother. Sometimes family members don't like people getting hurt, even if its being caused by a sibling. Move on.
2007-01-25 02:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't make a criminal case of this. Are you that serious that you are exclusively dating each other or have you never talked about this? Maybe you are thinking it is an exclusive relationship but he isn't. If you are unhappy about it -talk with him - if you are unhappy with the answer - move on - cause I am here to tell you - there are plenty of fish in the sea and there are a great number of them that are 100 times better than what you got right now!
2007-01-25 02:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't trust either one. Why would his brother rat him out unless he wants you too.
2007-01-25 02:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they don't wanna be caught, because they are afraid to get into a serious relationship, because they are afraid to commit, or to lose the woman they love...u shold tell him about what u found out, and see what he thinks about this....
2007-01-25 02:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u outta find out about it urself... some guys're bastards n they always lie.. but some are honest..i dunno bout ur guy..
but first, lemme ask u this: did he ever say that he's attached to u? or did u two ever make an agreement to stop dating anyone else?..
cuz if u haven't, then i guess he's still free to go out with his friends.. i know u'd probably hate me for this, but that's wat i think.. i mean, i've gone out with a lotta girls, but we only go out n enjoy each other's company, for that time.. so our goin out doesn't involve any commitment.. and until we make an agreement, as much as i'd go out freely, i'd let her do the same n go out with any guy...
so if u got that cleared, then i guess u can check him out..
2007-01-25 02:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Eh, Prolly is
2007-01-25 02:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by Tyson 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you don't know the answear to this question, you should not be dating at all.
2007-01-25 02:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by definemenow@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋