My Mum used to do this from my dad to the sixteen other morons she used to bring home. They were all so obviously scum, and she knew it. She used to say that she didn't want commitment or a nice "boring" man.
After ten years of repeating this cycle I go my first Boyfriend at 19(whom I'm still with and buying a house with) who was as my Mum puts it "very nice"
It was after seeing how a nice boring relationship is better then one where you disrespected everyday she changed her tune and is now with a nice boring man too.
I think when women constantly go out with morons its because they don't think they deserve any better and the devil you know is better then the devil you don't.
And as we all know love isn't just blind its stupid also.
2007-01-25 01:44:49
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answered by Char Black 2
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Some women do. So do some men. Apparently it depends upon the individual. On the other hand, some men do lie, cheat, and generally act like bastards. I've dated several. Instead of acting like the "victim", I left. I had to fight my way out a couple of times because the lying, cheating bastards decided not to let me go. I had a few of the lying, cheating bastards stalk me after I left them. Why are men such idiots when they know they're wrong? What's up with that?
2007-01-25 01:44:35
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answered by badkitty1969 7
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Some women do enjoy the victim role because it gives them attention. These women love drama and feed off it even if it gives them a miserable life. Fortunately many of us are strong, capable women who will not tolerate a relationship that is toxic, whether it be physical, emotional, or mental abuse.
2007-01-25 01:37:34
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answered by missingora 7
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I think they saw that kind of relationship growing up in their own home. Maybe their father was like that, to their mother and they see this as normal. It is so unfortunate that these woman dont believe that they deserve better. They really are in their comfort zone with a guy like that. When a guy is nice, they dont get it., preety sad, dont blame her though, just continue to tell her she does'nt deserve it.
2007-01-25 01:38:43
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answered by Anonymous
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there are men and ladies individuals alike who do such issues. for my section, i attempt and sidestep adult males like that, if i ever ended up with one it may be because of the fact he misrepresented himself; as quickly as a guy cheats--he's kicked to the shrink. mendacity and being a jerk, properly particularly circumstances all of us does that, so looking on difficulty, i could forgive them a pair situations. yet that's my selection, so no reason to 'moan and groan' to all of us approximately it. settle for it or substitute it is my motto.
2016-11-27 01:01:21
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answered by ? 4
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Sadly women love an asshole. It has something to do with their subconscious, if a man is rejecting them than he must be important or a really suitable mate.
2007-01-25 01:48:17
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answered by Tyson 3
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only insecure women stay with guys like that.
some guys do that do. will stay with a horrible woman just because. it all depends on the person, dear.
2007-01-25 01:35:22
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answered by Mimi 7
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ONLY A CRAZY WOMAN WOULD STAY WITH A LOSER LIKE THAT. I DO BELIVE SOME CHICS LIKE THAT TYPE OF LIFESTYLES. DOWN SOUTH WE CALL THEM DRAMA QEENS
2007-01-25 01:37:49
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answered by Anonymous
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It is built in to them --- to be used --- think of it as love --- then when it's over --- to get mad --- ask what is going on ---
then they move on --- get used again --- think of it as love --- and get angry about it ---
2007-01-25 01:43:12
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answered by brainfreeze007 3
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