I am moving to the US , to marry, leaving every thing behide that I love.Who will I have to talk to if my husband is a difficult man.?My sister and I are very close, I won't be abled to just call her, and seek advise, I don't want to worry her. Because she will feel helpless to help with the distance. Its not like she would be next door, and I can just go over there.I only know another person there beside the man I would marry, a woman, and she is his ex-girlfriend. She would deffinetly not want to get involved.He loves me as I love him, but we all know, that once your married, you really get to know the real person.Do we all just take chances?Make your bed and lie in it.What is it that I could be asking him, before I make this moved?I pray for guidance and for GOD to help me.And if I don't go, I will always be left wondering.We have known each other long distance for a year, we have met in person ,and spent 12 days together.He was, I believe on his best behaviour, but so was I.
2007-01-25 01:29:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make new friends
But keep the old
One is silver
the other gold.
It's not a bad idea to live exclusively for each other when you love the person - even if it is for a while.. you will make new friends, and if you love him & he loves you, the world is not such a distant place. I also live away (countries & oceans away!) from family, but things like Skype & email make the distance smaller, and family is always family, near or far; to talk to, to turn to, to laugh with... it will be tough at first, but if you focus on why you're moving rather than what you're leaving behind, then it will be okay.
2007-01-25 01:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you have only spent 12 days with this man and you are going to leave your country and family to marry him,,,,um. Yes we all take chances but I believe on a more solid ground. You have know him for a year, long distance, so what is the rush to marry now?. Listen to your inner voice. GL
2007-01-25 09:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say make new friends right away..... maybe get a job or get into some social groups.... it will help you - just be friendly! Then you should be able to confide in them people when you feel like you can't talk to your husband. Good Luck with everything.... who knows may be good!
2007-01-25 09:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Misty B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by accident
2007-01-25 09:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by norwood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋