2007-01-25 01:15:32 · 22 answers · asked by manna eater 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No on both counts.
Peace.
2007-01-25 01:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Char 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not going to hell for raising an out of wedlock baby or any other baby.
You would for "fornication" if you have not repented of it.
As for the issue of keeping the child, or having an abortion: why compound adultry with murder? The first sin is bad enough. Don't try to avoid the first by committing a second.
And adoption might be a better alternative then raising it ourself.
2007-01-25 09:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by dewcoons 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
God will forgive the sin and why would you commit another sin to try to fix the previous? The reason God forgives is because we can't fix our selves and we can't get to heaven based on what we do right or do wrong or that would make some people prideful and they would think it was all about them. God wants our lives to reflect his glory and he deserves it because he is good. The evil in the world causes bad things not God. Ask yourself why the realtionship you are in caused this unwanted child. Maybe it is you being selfish and then not wanting to take responsiblity. The men who can't be "daddy" shouldn't be messing around either.
2007-01-25 09:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by java348 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,God loves you and your baby and wants you to do what makes you happy.Not what other people say in a negative way.It is perfectly al right to have your baby out of wedlock,just do not let others tell you otherwise.Love the baby and let that be whats important
2007-01-25 09:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by woodsonhannon53 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First it depends upon what YOU believe. Personally I don't think God judges us either way. We suffer only by our own thoughts about ourselves, our own sense of guilt according to what we believe is real. As I was taught growing up that God IS love and to me....that is it....cut and dried...end of the story. All the rest of it is the human condition.
Personally it would be better to put the child up for adoption if you are unable to care for it. There are many many people out there who would love to have a child and are in a position to care for it properly. But don't beat yourself up about it. Keeping a child that you know you can't provide for is a selfish thing to do. It is simply a way for you to "punish" yourself for whatever wrong you think you have done. But in the end it is the child that suffers.
Don't let the opinion of those around you sway you. You are ultimately the one who has to choose what is best for the child.
Good luck.
2007-01-25 09:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by O Wise One 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will not got to hell for raising an out of wedlock baby. You go to Hell for lack of faith. Not for Sin. Profess with your mouth and believe in your that Jesus is the Son fo God and you will have eternal life.
2007-01-25 09:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by TULSA 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
God would have you raise that innocent baby. Abortion is not an option in God's eyes.
2007-01-25 09:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by bonsai bobby 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thou shalt not kill
therefore despite the fact that you have an out of wedlock baby as long as you have asked Jesus into your heart and repented of your sins you are forgiven
Even jeffrey Dahmer is said to have repented and been forgiven
Blessings on you
2007-01-25 09:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by caretaker 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
absolutlely not, the way i see, you would be more likely to be condemned if you had had the abortion. there is absolutly nothing wrong with showing love to a child, wheter out of wedlock or not.
god does not frown upon children and showing them love, he does however, frown upon murder
2007-01-25 09:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by jedi_stigma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all god does exsit and hell does exsit , for a moment I want you to think who did all those thing who did the earth who did YOU ??
second of all of course you'll go to hell only if you are a Muslim you'll go to the paradise, and by the way see ya in hell ......
2007-01-25 09:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
God prefers life, you'll be fine stop a being a Catholic.
2007-01-25 09:18:53 · answer #11 · answered by nivek191 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋