Why average looking guy go after me and I am not attractive to him?

Question

I'm not sure if I want to begin friendship with him and he is a computer whiz. His heart is so incridible , he's intuitive, sensitive, and spiritual. I am an attractive woman with good heart, but I need your honesty and not focus his nerding appealing but I don't want to hurt his feeling. Quote, I never been in real steady relationship with men but I have many male friends and we dated but we were not in serious relationship.I seen some beauty and the geeks are happily married.

Answer 1

There is no way that this can be solved here. If two people of the opposite sex are attracted to one another, it is for a good reason. If one feels uncomfortable with the other it will show. You may want to be friends, but nothing serious. You will know when Mr. Right comes along. Give yourself time.

Answer 2

All I can say is try it out. I am a geek myself, and my wife gave me a shot, and she's smoking hot. She says that (and maybe she's just stroking my ego) I'm the best in bed she's ever had, as well as just best all around guy.

Give the guy a shot what's the worst that could happen? You'd have to dump him, you can handle that. Go break that geek's heart.

Answer 3

I'm not really sure what you are asking. Your grammer and punctuation is terrible.
But if you're asking whether you should date this geek that you know, then I would have to ask if there is a physical attraction as well? You can't date someone if you aren't attracted.

Answer 4

Tell him nicely, tell him that you like him, but not like that. If he seems upset, tell him that you've never been in a serious relationship, and you don't know if your ready to be in one. Good Luck!

Answer 5

maybe u should try
talk to him and see if there could be something between u
if he understands u and stuff

if no tell him coz life is cruel and he has to get used to it

Answer 6

You might find the love of your life, go for it.

Answer 7

Go for it, u might find love.