Does she like me?Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends(but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till last week when she sent me a mail. It was about her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I dont know if i shud ask her about the outing we were supposed to go and i dont know if i shud reply her b/c of wat happened( the outing and not talking to me
2007-01-25 01:03:50 · 12 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU HAVE LOST HER FORGET THE OUTING.
2007-01-25 01:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what your question is.
But here is an observation: If a person really wants to be with someone, they will find a way, and she did not. I think she would like to remain in contact with you while she is overseas, but it looks like you are in her "friend" category. If you would like to stay in touch, knowing that, then do continue to email her. If you feel that your feelings are stronger than that and that it would be painful, then tell her so, and step away.
She is not returning attention to you that is anywhere what you are hoping for, so pay attention to that, and protect your heart. If you can accept that a friendship is all there will be, then be her friend.
By the way, you should be able to talk to her about anything. If you want to know what happened over the holidays, by all means ask her.
2007-01-25 01:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep emailing her. She asked you to so she must enjoy your emails. Maybe with her studies she just isn't ready for more than a friendship right now. Give her the benefit of the doubt and believe her when she says she will email you when she finds time. Don't ask her about the outing you were supposed to go on. Just let it go. That was then, this is now. She knows how you feel about her so give her a chance to think about how she feels. She'll either give you clues that she wants to be more than friends or she won't.
2007-01-25 01:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Thia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think give her a time for her study and just keep on emailing her as what she told you.Maybe she wants to still have some communication with you although she's far from you.Just be patient and who know's after all you've done you'll get her heart!!Just be a good and nice buddy to her, dont change but act more show your feelings in right way.You could visit her if you can afford it.Hope i helped you thats all.
2007-01-25 01:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how she feels, tell her to be truthful with you. Maybe she was busy with school and/or work. Hopefully she didn't find someone else to spend time with. If you still can't get through to her, see if you can contact a close friend of hers. Other than that, things are looking quite hopeless. I'm sorry, I hope something works out.
2007-01-25 01:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by Amoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you reply to her. Dont be so prideful that you discontinue talking to her. You guys kill me with your pride. Swollow it for crying out loud and keep in contact with her while she is gone. Dont fret over the outing that never happened or about her not contacting you before she left. She had alot to prepare for and i am sure you were not priority at the time as you were NOT her bf.
Just keep in touch and see what develops from here. Respect her for tackling such a life changing event and be supportive. After all, she did contact you eventually. Good luck.
2007-01-25 01:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably just busy with all the holidays, and I mean she moved overseas, she probably wanted to spend some time with her family before she left, I mean she did ask you to keep emailing her. I'm sure she was just too busy to do something with you. Just ask her what happened, be open.
2007-01-25 01:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by melimel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all in any relationship good communication is the key. If want to know about something just ask her instead of just wondering about it? It's not going to hurt anything to just ask. It just might clear some stuff up for you. It could be she had things come up that she didn't get a chance to respond to you. Just ask her and then you will know.
2007-01-25 01:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by itsjustme12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be stop to emailing her...it will make her curious what's going on with you and she will speak about her feeling... if she does not have any for you, than start to look around and you will find someone who is not learning overseas...
2007-01-25 01:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by vandom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is really busy or maybe she had a change of heart. No matter what it may be...you should continue on with your life as usual. You can't stop living simply because she's not responding. Hopefully, you'll hear from her soon
2007-01-25 01:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound harsh but get a life and a gf of your own other than this chick, who has moved on and is obv busy with her new life. she might look you up when she returns but if u cant have a life of ur own you are going to seem a bit of a loser. sorry.
2007-01-25 01:17:41 · answer #11 · answered by Syn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋