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2007-01-24 23:55:22 · 12 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go talk to her!
2007-01-24 23:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You came on this website for good old honest advice and I am going to give it to you.
You will NOT appeal to the girl in the student union because you seem introvert - from your own words. You CANNOT ask her out straight away, you have to work your way in there first.
Join all the societys she is in. Go to every meeting of the student union and one day, ask her for her opinion on something. You will start speaking from then on. If you are not so trendy clothes wise, see how the other people in the union dress and try that style. I am sure, you have potential to be a top, interesting hunk!!!! - invite me to the engagement party!
2007-01-25 00:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start off small- ask her a question about something to do with the union - or classes or whatever you guys do in there! Then after ye establish a bit of chitchat about the union why not ask her if she has plans for the weekend or something like that - you dont have to ask her out immediately - just get her to know you - over time you can take the plunge and ask her on a date if you two get on well enough!
xx
2007-01-25 00:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she's waiting to get served at the bar, say (this is sometimes the hardest bit) "hi!" (remember to smile). Usually best not to say "Hi, how you doing" (as this sounds like you think you're Joey). See what she says, she might start the conversation, in which case, respond as best you can, always making sure that you're showing an interest in her, talking more about her than yourself.
If she just says "hi" back then you have to think of what to say. The list of student small talk cliches is long:
-Do you study here?
-What do you study?
-What music are you into?
-Where are you from?
-What year are you in?
-Do you live in halls or in a house?
-What do you think of (city you're studying in)?
-Are you going to (such and such a night) at the SU/local club?
These are just a few. If you want to be more original then you can always compliment her on her clothes, hair, shoes, style in general, or ask where she got her top from cos you want to get one for your sister's birthday (if you actually have a sister... try not to lay traps for yourself by lying, where the third time you see her you talk about your brothers, she says something about your sister, you say you haven't got one, and voila you've lost all credibility)
In the end you just have to have the cahunas to go and say "hi", be yourself and if she's interested then she'll keep talking to you. Good luck!
2007-01-25 00:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by splat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 13:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well nacho, its like this, you have to dip your toe in the water to guage the temp???? Just try to get to talk to her, be brave and remember that for every rejection there is a positive outcome. It gives you confidence. The confidence to ask another girl out if this one didnt turn out as expected, but, on the other hand she might just surprise you and say yes. Talk to her!!!
2007-01-25 00:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it u've got nothin2lose, an just b urself. its always the quiet ones ya gotta watch out4. plus girls like innocent shy guys, its like a challenge lol.
2007-01-24 23:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Li 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
er... you're in a student union? ask her about her course, develop a sudden, indepth interest in whatever it is ask lots of questions and listen... then ask her about herself and continue with a variety of themes until she gets the hint that you're interested in her... by about that time, nature should take its course...
2007-01-25 00:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by muppet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hand her an envelope asking her out, with your number. If it's really busy and public there then you don't wanna say anything and let everyone know.....
2007-01-25 00:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta be subtle mate , something like , "any chance of a shag " , is a good opener !!
2007-01-25 00:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋