I'm going to work today and I'm going to see this woman that I asked yesterday to hang out with me and she said-"can I get back to you on that"? sounds like she was rejecting me. should I ignore her and not even look at her anymore? the thing is that I have a big crush on her. Thanks for your help....
2007-01-24 23:16:40 · 19 answers · asked by luckystrike_x007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she needed time to think about it. If I am interested in a guy I would want to go out with him all prepared even psychologically.
Give your best smile it would be encouraging to her.
Then see how it goes
2007-01-24 23:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she had her mind on other things and didn't get around to talking to you about it. Having something specific in mind like grabbing some bread and feeding the ducks at a park. Find something that a couple of friends could do and then suggest it. Maybe it could be a group outing to start with. Maybe she is shy. If she isn't interested it is okay. Don't take it personally. And for goodness sake, don't give her the cold shoulder. One can never have too many friends! Good Luck
2007-01-25 07:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No defently don't ignore her because she will know that your a bit hurt or ticked off. Just say hi and act as normal as can be like any other day. Trust me from a girls point of view, if you act like you don't care then that will attract her.
I know that sounds silly, but at the moment she knows you like her so she has the power. To get the power back, act like you never even asked her out!
2007-01-25 07:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then ask her out on a date straight out don't get scared what could she say NO wow don't trip on this kind of stuff you know how we do it we go on and on and on and on life keeps going so keep looking until you find the girl(s) you like fish around (safe sex or save it for another) You can't expect to live happily ever after and not know because you never asked.
2007-01-25 07:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by DeV!0uS cH!CkS cz C0NfL!Ct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... do not ignore her!! Maybe she was just testing you, if you really like her you should just forget about the 'rejecting' thing and be cool as usual, I mean pretend that you didnt ask her anything... sooo....pretend that you're playing a kite, sometimes you pull the thread sometimes you let it fly really high... now, its time to 'let it fly really high' and then after she is responding you, you have to pull the thread, let her come close to you. Good luck!!
2007-01-25 07:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by Katrin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her that your a nice person. show her the real you dont ask her out just yet. make her want you. start off with a hi the first day then hi with a little how are you if she says good and nothing eles say ok and walk away. next day say hi again with a your looking nice today how r u doing. then if she says find and you then start talking and when your done say it was nice talking to you we should hang out sometime
2007-01-25 07:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by shakwona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she meant to be rude or reject you.She may have sincere reasons for delaying an answer. If she chooses to say no, You can still be her friend. You can't just hate someone for not feeling the same way you do . If she does say no it isn't a "rejection" she just doesn't feel the same way that you do.
2007-01-25 07:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life you will be rejected many times, you have to learn to deal with it. Ignoring her will not help you in anyway. If you can't date her, you can at least be her friend. Don't ignore her
2007-01-25 07:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by TT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are really interested in this gal you need to show her that.
maybe that is why she is unsure, you need to wow her and if you ignore her she will definatley not be interested
this girl clearly has some feelings for you or she wouldnt have left it so open, it doesn't mean she doesn't like you she just hasn't been convinced yet so get out there and get your girl!
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-25 07:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant give up !! persuasion is very attractive to a girl. you don't want a woman that is easy and says 'yes' at the first go right? continue the chase and be subtle. don't come on too strong but be sweet to her and just keep asking her. if you're a gentleman then your persistence is so hot.
2007-01-25 07:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋