what do u think that having sex on 1st date? I personly dont or i might be old fashioned
2007-01-24 23:12:37 · 20 answers · asked by saau2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most guys have sex on their first date even if the girl has gone home and left them with a lousy kiss goodnight...either in the car driving home or once home alone, all that anticapatory pressure gets relieved even if only by hand!
2007-01-24 23:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by mrjones502003 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's hard to say if it's "wrong" as that's really a personal call and no-one else's business. So ignore other posters opinions. It's your opinion that matters. However, it may be illegal where you live to do this, and you might end up facing a brutal execution depending on what the court decides. Go to your local courthouse and ask a court clerk if you are likely to face execution for you behaviour BEFORE agreeing to it. If there are no laws against it then book the nearest motel room and prepare to be plugged. Also, it might be a bad idea to go around saying this is the 1st date. This will put pressure on the guy to have a 2nd date, he may not want to think about a 2nd date, or if he does want to think about it, not right now. Guys don't want pressure when they are thinking about sex. By talking constantly about 1st dates, 2nd dates, etc, you are only making him miserable. He is only thinking about 1 thing right now, and it is certainly not what colour of shoes you will be wearing on a possible future 2nd date.
2016-05-23 21:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating a person 4 the first time won't let u know all at once about her i.e will she be always with u and is she trustworthy?and so ifff u hv s.. with her and later u know she isn't good enough as a life partner for u then .. when you actually get married to a true lv won't you be ashamed to tell her that you actually slept 4 the first time with some one else....and people date 400 million timz so that means hving 400 timz with dfferent people is NUTS.
2007-01-24 23:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your both keen and in the moment I don't see why not. But then again I never let myself get that outa hand on the first date as I save sex for love and trust, it just depends on what you want out of the girl your seeing and what kinda relationship you want to have
2007-01-24 23:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by preped_up_princess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u just met the person or only knew the person for a month or so u should wait. but if it was a friend first and go out on a date.. i dont see why u cant.
2007-01-24 23:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by shakwona 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me personally, no! Sex is a very personal and up close intimacy that I have no desire to share with a stranger. However, to each his own devices. God bless****
2007-01-24 23:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't and haven't!
I just think it's better once you have gotten to know the person better first, well a little bit anyway. Otherwise it just becomes all about the sex.
2007-01-24 23:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Thats a no no on the first date.
2007-01-24 23:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well that depends on the person u are dating but if it is a bar gal type go on and if its not hold ur brakes u might llose everything
2007-01-24 23:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ONly if sex has been reduced to a hand shake-D
2007-01-24 23:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋