Besides "move on" and "get a new girl", what are other solutions?

Question

It's simple, I love her but she doesn't love me. I can't just focus on my studies bacause I'm going through school work and homework effortlessly. I need to forget her somehow.

Answer 1

I see that you are a student and wants to concentrate on the studies. I think is attitude more than enough for you to forget her. It is basically in the spare time that you think of her. How about some hobbies like video games, reading short stories, playing football, rugby or any outdoor games. A positive attitude " I do not care about any one" and do things you like. Further, you can carry on being friends and do not need to have deep relationships. However, there is no harm in thinking about some one, provided it is does not become a lust. It is up to you as to how you can face it.

Answer 2

These are just my opinions: 1. Clean up the media. TV is nothing but trash. (Hollywood as well). 2. Reduce the use of medication for mental illness. I have a M. Sc Psychology, and can't believe the increase in meds, that aren't tested for long term use. Since 1998 there is a 54% increase in medication for ADD, ADHD, OCD. 3. Expand the use of CCW. 4. Deputize returning vets, after a screening. 5. Restrict lawsuits. 6. Enforces immigration laws, and put Americans back to work. Working people don't have idol minds. 7. Any immigrants that are here should be taxed at a higher rate instead of punishing hard working Americans.

Answer 3

Hm. Find a hobby. Get something to keep you busy. This is my personal sollution: Buy World of Warcraft, and start playing it. Get yourself a nice thick book (All of the Harry Potter books, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, etc) that you can read before bed so you don't think of her then, and start learning the lyrics to some or all of your songs. then get yourself and iPod and listen those songs while you're not playing or reading. Rinse & repeat all of these till she's out of your thoughts.

Answer 4

It is very clear that you have not accepted the fact that she does not like you though you know it. Focus on something that is most important to you and eventually you will get over her. but be warned, it is not going to be easy

Answer 5

in a word-sociallize - and don't talk about her.
try it for two weeks. You will be surprised how easy it is to change your 'sence of urgency' into a memory.Most of all don't say poor me.There is a woman out there feeling the need to be with someone just like you!.
something else- be careful what you wish for -it might come true.When it comes to partners , you just NEVER know who she is.

Answer 6

NOTE: You shouldn't have gotten involved with girls if you still have to do homework. As you can see, it only hinders you, and it only creates problems. It always becomes a problem until you actually find someone in the future you will settle down with.

I suggest you focus all your energy into homework and school with whatever emotions you have towards her. Impress yourself, and she might be impressed as well.

NOTE: You don't know what love is yet.

Answer 7

I can understand. Try to focus on other things and get yourself busy to stop thinking about her

Answer 8

Well I dont know.... but if she doesnt love you - what can you do? You dont really want to be doing this to yourself or her..... The right girl for you will come along and make you forget all about this other girl one day.

Answer 9

nobody said you had to stop loving her just cause she don't love you. Just tell her you are there for her as a friend ( it will make you feel better) do it for you not just her. Smile cause you sound like a sweetheart and there is someone out there that will see that in you

Answer 10

Honey, understand you cant force things. Dont waste your time on someone who doesnt want to be with you. Just focus on yourself and you'll be just fine!