Hi
I am not getting full support from my wife in bed. what should i do. she always shy from that and never support me. i am a unsatsified man. plz suggest me what sould i do.
2007-01-24 22:21:24 · 14 answers · asked by MAHI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i suggest you support yourself.
2007-01-24 22:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must of had her full support when you first met her. Maybe you have changed since then or maybe she has. What ever worked in the begining can be fixed to be that way again. You should sit down and explain your concerns to her on this matter. Try doing and saying the things you used to when you first met her.
Good luck & take care.
2007-01-25 06:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you do in bed is just between the 2 of you. Make sure you tell her she is respected and beautiful. pleasure her and she will pleasure you. She's probably holdong back cause she doesnt want you to think she's a slut and where she may have learned that stuff from. Thats where some soft porn may help you can watch it together and ask her if she would like that done to her and you could also tell her what you would like done to you. Its all about communication,respect and love for a women to feel completely free in bed. Good luck.
2007-01-25 06:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chances are your wife is as bored as you and finds it easier to just let you get on with it to shut you up,try talking to her about what she feels is lacking,,anything she would like you to do,,it may seem like it would be trying to just please her but if she is enjoying sex or foreplay with you ,,you will enjoy it also,pleasing another can be a great turn-on so i would suggest you start there,,what you and she do in the bedroom is between you and her and no one else so discuss what you would like to try while at the same time acknowledging that if she isnt enjoying anything you do she can openly say so and the same goes for you,,sex shouldnt be a chore it should be special but if the sex has become boring or worse,routine there is a chance her desire has plummeted and the idea of sex just isnt something she wants to think about,who wants to eat the same piece of cake all the time,,try something new.it doesnt have to be flinging each other around the room but even a small change is something.
2007-01-25 07:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking ...have you talked to her and asked her why she isn't supporting you. Maybe it is somethign she needs to talk about. I know that is the womanly thing to say...talk it out but you never know it might work. See if there is something else going on in your marriage. Believe me I can say I know where you are coming from. It can go both ways. Woman can be unfullfilled also,
2007-01-25 06:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her duty to make sure you are getting full support. If she is unable to do that, then it is her obligation to bring help into the bed. Perhaps with the aid of her sister or best friend, she will be more able to support you.
Hope this helps. :-)
2007-01-25 07:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much support is she getting from you when it comes to the housework? Maybe she is as unsatisfied as you are, only in other areas. Ask yourself if your marriage is a true partnership, where you put in as much as you expect to get out of it.
2007-01-25 06:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she likes and go about it from her angle. a shy woman sometimes turns in to the greatest woman in bed if she is getting what she wants.
2007-01-25 06:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by stupid people make me laugh!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is full support? Is she supposed to hold it up for you?
2007-01-25 06:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by poutanaki4u 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. If you aren't supported in the bedroom, you probably aren't any were else.
2007-01-25 06:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋