me a sex with him, i am afraid of his wife and felling gilty. But I need his support and money for my life, I hope he will change my life by his money and power. What can I do? Please advise me ownestly. Thank you
2007-01-24 22:01:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NEVER ENTER INTO A RELATIONSIP WITH A MARRIED PERSON!
Explanation:
This is a very common issue. Here's what happens 99% of the time: They guy NEVER leaves the wife for the girl whom he had the affair with. If he does, studies show that this is rare. He will likely do the same thing again to another girl who is younger, and available.
If he has kids. You and HE are potentially screwing up the kids lives from a potential divorce. It is not fair to the children.
The guy has no self-respect and uses people with the money and power he has over them. He does not love you, nor will he ever treat you, his wife, or any other girl he is doing this with as an equal.
You may need money or think you need his help in getting something as you have stated in your Q: Think about what you are hoping:
"I hope he will change my life by his money and power."
If you want money, he'll give it to you and more when you sleep with him. Think about what this is equated to? I hope I don’t have to spell it out.
You need to be the smart person in the "relationship" and say this is wrong on every count, and get out before he gets "in."
Be smart and do the right thing. You will feel 1000% better about yourself later.
2007-01-24 22:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Net Advisor™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you do?? Be a woman and stand on your own two feet!! For one you are wrong to get involved with a married man. You should feel guilty.
Two, where is your independence? Do you even have a job? The best part about my life is that I have worked for everything I have achieved; my car, my own house, and countless other blessings. I'm only 31 and I've achieved much! I don't need any man to take care of me, I never have.
Try supporting yourself and making your own money. Then try finding your own husband!
2007-01-24 22:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by TINY822 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think a man's money and power will change your life, you are mistaken. Unless he decides to leave his wife for you...he is not going to do anything to help you because she would find out.
Of course you should feel guilty, sleeping with someone else's husband is the first wrong thing you could do...and then using that man purely for his money and power is the second.
I suggest you break ties with this man, unless you have feelings for him, and he wants to see you under honest conditions.
Sorry..
Good luck
2007-01-24 22:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by veggie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does he has grown up children ,and check many a times like is he wanted to marry u? or he wants u for sex only? what about u? without a marriage are u ready to have sex with this man just for money..,is ur society is ok? will they be silent ? if ur answer for all of these questions is YES ..then go ahead..
2007-01-24 22:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to school and earn your way to a better education because honey, you need to learn how to spell in order for you to support yourself. this OLD MAN is not going to support you for life if he is married. Move on. Leave him alone. don't be a homewrecker. sorry if this is a little too mean, but its the truth.
2007-01-24 22:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by lady hiphop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even the very rich man in the world if he is married is useless , u have no tommorow in that kind of man , you will getting worse if u will go with him , dont believe will give you the world , after he taste u and get what he wants he will go home and left u, mark my words , in this world no married man is good , nite will come he will go home to his home , wife , so avoid this and find another man that is free
2007-01-24 22:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fear is because you know it's wrong. Don't rely on others for support or money become self-sufficient. Having sex with him is giving him permission to treat you as a prostitute. I don't know your age or anything about you but standing on your own two feet under your own terms gives you a greater connection to yourself.
2007-01-24 22:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by kelstar 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
money over values. its always the same old story for men and women. lust over love. whats next. if u need the money, work for it. dont ruin someones life just because u need support. damn....since u feel guilty then that means u know whats right or wrong. do what is right.....for everyone not just for you financially!
2007-01-24 22:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To quote you directly from the question you previously answered...
Pray pray pray and God help you He is the only way to get out from all problems. If You beleive in God strongly you can get the fast answer from hem. Good lack. God bless you.
2007-01-24 22:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
excuse me Danny, this is a man who has money and is MARRIED and is coming on to a woman. She wants something for herself and is as up front about it as he is and SHE is evil?
I don't THINK so!
2007-01-24 22:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by theradicalwomen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋